{"id":1481,"date":"2011-08-21T09:41:45","date_gmt":"2011-08-21T09:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/projectconversion\/?p=1481"},"modified":"2011-08-21T09:51:10","modified_gmt":"2011-08-21T09:51:10","slug":"iftar-dinner-at-the-masjid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/projectconversion\/2011\/08\/iftar-dinner-at-the-masjid.html","title":{"rendered":"Iftar Dinner at the Masjid"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Islam, while indeed a personal faith, is more visibly communal&#8211;especially during the holy month of Ramadan. And if you plan on experiencing communal Islam only once, attend and iftar dinner at your local masjid. Here, you&#8217;ll get a taste of just about everything within the faith physically, emotionally, socially, and spiritually.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Last night was my first communal iftar with my Muslim brothers and sisters this month at the local masjid. Now, before I dive any deeper, let&#8217;s review some vocabulary:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><em>Iftar:<\/em><\/span> a meal which breaks the fast after sundown with three dates (or any fruit) and full meal followed by the maghrib prayers during Ramadan.<br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">Ramadan:<\/span><\/em> the ninth and holiest month in Islam. A month of fasting from\u00a0dawn to sunset, it is the month in which the Qur&#8217;an was revealed to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh).<br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><em>Masjid:<\/em><\/span> proper term for a Islamic center\u00a0for worship and activity, otherwise known as a &#8220;mosque.&#8221;<br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><em>Tarawih:<\/em><\/span> special prayers after the latest prayer of the day, Isha, in which extra supplications are given to Allah and a reading of the Qur&#8217;an. This is optional during the month of Ramadan.<\/p>\n<p>Now that we&#8217;re clear on the terms, let&#8217;s go over my evening at the masjid.<\/p>\n<p>I arrived a little after 8 o&#8217;clock. The masjid isn&#8217;t that large, so there was plenty of seating. If you plan to attend a larger masjid, show up sometime before 8 to secure seating. Also, in an act of thanks for the imam&#8217;s and my Mentor&#8217;s invitation to the iftar, I brought a case of bottled water. This may not seem like a big deal but remember, we&#8217;ve\u00a0abstained from food <em>and<\/em> water all day.<\/p>\n<p>After sunset, everyone eats three dates to officially break the fast and then digs into the meal. The food is cultural-specific, and so your location and social setting determines what you might eat. Last night there was a good variety: salad, fried fish, fruit, flat bread, lasagna, and various deserts.<\/p>\n<p>The atmosphere of the meal&#8211;at least at my masjid&#8211;is very casual and relaxed. The brothers and sisters\u00a0ate separately and the meal is centered around conversation. My table had two brothers, I suppose you could say a little more eccentric than the rest, who argued in good spirits about highly mystical elements within Islam.\u00a0They tried to include me (and everyone else) in their debate but, <em>alhamdulillah (<\/em>praise to God<em>)<\/em>, the imam\u00a0noticed my plight and pulled me over to his table with a smile.<\/p>\n<p>There we talked about the project and Islam in general. I was given a chance to explain in greater detail what Project Conversion was all about and was asked a few questions about my impression of Islam so far.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Discipline,&#8221; I said. That could probably sum up the entire month.<\/p>\n<p>Most interesting was\u00a0one of the imam&#8217;s questions to me. He asked, &#8220;What do you think Muslims could do to create a better image of Islam in our communities?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Wow, this man has been a Muslim for years and he&#8217;s asking <em>my<\/em> advice?\u00a0I was floored. I offered that public visibility, the people seeing the Islamic community doing good works and acting in charity and service&#8211;the very way Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) told us to be&#8211;was the best way. Everyone at the table agreed and I sighed in relief.<\/p>\n<p>Next, after the muezzin makes the adhan (call to prayer in Arabic), communal maghrib prayers.<\/p>\n<p>Men line up in front\/ladies in the back, toe-to-toe, shoulder to shoulder, and perform the prayers together. I love this part the most. My first two times were awkward, but last night just flowed so easy. I cannot recite the whole thing in Arabic, but I recognize the breaks for the movements. Prostrating and moving together in the prayer, drawing out the &#8220;Ameen&#8221; in one, deep, drawn voice&#8230;it&#8217;s like your a single entity moving in supplication to God. Indeed, that&#8217;s what a Muslim is. The Qur&#8217;an says that the whole of creation supplicates to God, everything in nature is a Muslim,\u00a0and the communal prayer illustrates that with humanity.<\/p>\n<p>Next, tarawih. These are extra prayers which include reading a section of the Qur&#8217;an called a<em> juz<\/em>. It&#8217;s a long event, lasting between one to one and half hours, and is lead by a reciter who, like a conductor, orchestrates the movements of us all. A brother standing beside me shared his Qur&#8217;an and we followed along together. Let me make this clear: to read a translation of the Qur&#8217;an outside of Arabic is no substitute. Hearing this man <span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><strong><em>sing<\/em><\/strong><\/span> the Qur&#8217;an truly nailed the concept of this scripture being a <span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><strong><em>recitation<\/em><\/strong><\/span>. There&#8217;s nothing else like it. This is why many are able to memorize the entire Qur&#8217;an, because it was recited, like poetry, to the believers. There are stories of men and women who, upon hearing the sound of the Qur&#8217;an, converted on the spot as the words &#8220;tickled their ears.&#8221; Arabic in this way flows like a long, smooth breath. The language seems effortless and simply rolls off the tongue. Beautiful.<\/p>\n<p>After a few sections of reading, we would prostrate saying &#8220;Allahu Akbar&#8221; as with normal prayer. I lost count of how many times we did this, but by the end, I felt like I just left a yoga class.<\/p>\n<p>I left the masjid around 10:45 fully charged, even though I&#8217;d been up since 4:30 that morning. Few things compare this month to that experience and like I said, if you want to know what communal Islam is like, I implore you, attend a local masjid this month and take part in iftar. You might even go back for more the following week.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Islam, while indeed a personal faith, is more visibly communal&#8211;especially during the holy month of Ramadan. And if you plan on experiencing communal Islam only once, attend and iftar dinner at your local masjid. 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