{"id":590,"date":"2009-09-24T09:58:38","date_gmt":"2009-09-24T09:58:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/progressiverevival\/2009\/09\/dear-imam-rabbi-or-pastor-the.html"},"modified":"2009-09-24T09:58:38","modified_gmt":"2009-09-24T09:58:38","slug":"dear-imam-rabbi-or-pastor-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/progressiverevival\/2009\/09\/dear-imam-rabbi-or-pastor-the.html","title":{"rendered":"Dear Imam, Rabbi or Pastor: The Wrong Embryo Was Implanted, Can We Talk?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">Kate M. Ott, Ph.D. is the Associate Director of <a href=\"http:\/\/religiousinstitute.org\/\">The Religious Institute<\/a>: Faithful Voices on Sexuality and Religion<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\"><\/font>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">On Monday, Carolyn and Sean Savage of Sylvania, Ohio, told the national audience of the <\/font><a href=\"http:\/\/today.msnbc.msn.com\/id\/32950836\/ns\/today-today_health\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#0000ff\" size=\"3\"><span class=\"yshortcuts\">Today Show<\/span><\/font><\/a><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> that Carolyn was implanted with the wrong embryo during an in vitro fertilization (IVF) procedure.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>What if she were to come into your church or synagogue or mosque to tell her story, instead of the Today Show?<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">For millennia, religious traditions have provided direction, discernment and doctrine on issues of fertility and childbirth, family and kinship.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>These themes resound in the sacred texts and historical traditions of every major faith.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Yet most faith leaders and communities are unprepared to deal with issues raised by use of assisted reproductive technologies, or ARTs.<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"><span class=\"yshortcuts\">The Savages<\/span> explained they were hoping for a fourth child from the embryos they had created from previous IVF cycles.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Although their two sons were conceived through heterosexual intercourse, their daughter was conceived through IVF after the couple experienced secondary infertility, including 10 years of persistent attempts and miscarriages.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The Savages, upon learning of the misplaced embryo, faced two choices:<span>&nbsp; <\/span>terminate the pregnancy, or carry the fetus to term and give the child back to his\/her biological parents.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>They chose not only to continue this pregnancy, but also to continue to use IVF and a gestational surrogate to have more children.<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">The Savages&#8217; circumstances are not an everyday occurrence.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>But there is no doubt that the use of ARTs has begun to shift the way we think about reproduction, family structure and children.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><a href=\"http:\/\/geneticsandsociety.org\/downloads\/ART.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#0000ff\" size=\"3\"><span class=\"yshortcuts\">More than 3 million babies<\/span><\/font><\/a><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\"> worldwide have been born using ARTs, and approximately <\/font><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/ART\/ART2006\/508PDF\/2006ART.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#0000ff\" size=\"3\"><span class=\"yshortcuts\">12% of women<\/span><\/font><\/a><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> of child-bearing age in the U.S. have used an infertility service.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">Chances are someone in your faith community has used ARTs.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Clergy and religious professionals must be prepared to deal pastorally with couples and individuals who may use ARTs for genetic screening, acquire donated sperm, egg or embryos, hire a surrogate, or preserve their own sperm or eggs in the case of a severe illness, such as cancer.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">These technologies raise ethical issues and moral questions for religious leaders and the families they serve.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>ARTs give new hope to those who have been unable to conceive &#8211; but at what price?<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The technologies often impose unreasonable health risks and an extraordinary financial burden.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>High costs restrict the use of ARTs to the well-off and well-insured (and so far there has been no mention of assisted reproduction in the debate over healthcare reform).<span>&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">The Savages cite religious beliefs for their decisions, but religious beliefs related to ARTs range from complete opposition to caution to encouragement.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>What does your faith tradition say about use of ARTs, and what are those teachings based on? Long-held belief in the &#8220;blessing of fertility,&#8221; coupled with an inherent bias for biological children, can lead to repeated attempts at assisted reproduction, when there are other ways of creating family.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>It is time to lift up religious perspectives that value diverse family structures and expand our understanding of creativity and generativity in order to guide ethical discernment and inform compassionate counseling. <\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"><span><\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">Today the Religious Institute released <\/font><a href=\"http:\/\/www.religiousinstitute.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><i><font face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#800080\" size=\"3\"><span class=\"yshortcuts\">A Time to Be Born: A Faith-Based Guide to Assisted Reproductive Technologies<\/span><\/font><\/i><\/a><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"> to help clergy and other religious professionals address the complex pastoral, moral and ethical issues raised by assisted reproductive technologies.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The manual provides an overview of the technologies and how they are used; examines traditional religious perspectives on reproduction and fertility; and outlines a model of <span class=\"yshortcuts\">pastoral care and counseling<\/span> that will enable religious leaders to effectively minister to the individuals and communities seeking their help.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">Reproductive technologies are sophisticated and ever changing.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>By no means can any clergy member or religious professional be expected to know how all of them work or what makes someone a candidate for various technologies.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>But clergy and religious professionals <i>do<\/i> need to know how their faith traditions view ARTs.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The Today Show gave the Savages a forum to tell their story, but couples and individuals choosing to use ARTs should be able to turn to their faith communities for moral discernment, compassionate counseling and support. <span>&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kate M. 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