{"id":168,"date":"2009-09-22T10:18:26","date_gmt":"2009-09-22T10:18:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/prayer-for-relationship-reconciliation.html"},"modified":"2009-09-22T10:18:26","modified_gmt":"2009-09-22T10:18:26","slug":"prayer-for-relationship-reconciliation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/prayer-for-relationship-reconciliation.html","title":{"rendered":"Prayer for Relationship Reconciliation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"mt-image-none\" alt=\"LIM_BrothersReunited09_19_mezzn_640x480.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/224\/import\/LIM_BrothersReunited09_19_mezzn_640x480.jpg\" width=\"409\" height=\"307\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How about this for a story of reconciliation: After working side by side for the same moving company, two men, Gary Nisbet and Randy Joubert finally discovered that they were not only long-lost brothers, but actually identical twins separated at birth and adopted into different families.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Truth can be more surprising than fiction!<\/font><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">For weeks people had joked with them about how much they looked alike as they rode in the same delivery truck together in Waldoboro, Maine. <span>&nbsp;<\/span>Finally, something clicked with Randy. He pulled Gary aside and said, &#8220;This is going to sound bizarre, but were you adopted?&#8221; Gary, looked puzzled, then confirmed that he was in fact adopted.&nbsp; They compared notes and found out that they shared the same birthday and &#8211; amazingly &#8211; the same birth parents.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>They could only stared each other and disbelief.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\">This story makes a shake our heads in wonder.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>What a small and amazing world! Yet there is something painful here as well.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>How many of us have some estranged relationships with a personal we DO know, someone who really should be close to us but is not.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Some happenstance event, some careless word or impulsive decision drove a wedge between us that has grown into a chasm and has kept us apart.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>For Gary and Randy it was someone else&#8217;s choice that made the separation. For us it might have been our own choice. <span>&nbsp;<\/span>That means we can, by another choice do something about it, take a step heal them that. <\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">Prayer can play a key role in relationship reconciliation.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>In fact, relationship reconciliation absolutely plays a key role in prayer.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Jesus says in Matthew 6 that forgiveness and relationship rift is a precondition to God hearing in answering prayer.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Likewise, when we&#8217;re willing, prayer and God&#8217;s help can pave the way for restoration in relationship.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\">Do a quick audit on your own relationships.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Is there a rift separating you from someone significant?<span>&nbsp; <\/span>What are you losing by losing this person&#8217;s involvement in your life? <span>&nbsp;<\/span>Offer prayer now asking God to begin a healing here.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Ask God to bless this person, and to give you courage, strength, and wisdom to cultivate reconciliation.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Ask God for the opportunity to do what you can, and faith to trust him to do the rest, and perhaps bring about a surprising &#8211; though maybe not quite as dramatic &#8211; reunion.<\/font><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; How about this for a story of reconciliation: After working side by side for the same moving company, two men, Gary Nisbet and Randy Joubert finally discovered that they were not only long-lost brothers, but actually identical twins separated at birth and adopted into different families.&nbsp; Truth can be more surprising than fiction!&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":200,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-breaking-news","category-relationships"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Prayer for Relationship Reconciliation<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/prayer-for-relationship-reconciliation.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Prayer for Relationship Reconciliation\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&nbsp; 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