{"id":135,"date":"2009-09-03T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-09-03T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/prayer-a-vaccination-against-fear.html"},"modified":"2009-09-03T11:00:00","modified_gmt":"2009-09-03T11:00:00","slug":"prayer-a-vaccination-against-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/prayer-a-vaccination-against-fear.html","title":{"rendered":"Prayer &#8211; a Vaccination against Fear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Praying for and with our children is the only sure formula for raising fear-resistant kids &#8212; kids with real faith. There&#8217;s a Biblical precedent for this in the New Testament story that played out in the life of a young man named Timothy. Tracking Timothy&#8217;s remarkable life we find profound answers for our roles as parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, and mentors in the development of child&#8217;s faith. You can read <i>I Tim<\/i> 1:1-7 to catch the drift of the story. <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Paul the apostle met Timothy on his second missionary journey, while passing through the city of Lystra in Asia Minor (today, Turkey).<span>&nbsp; <\/span><i>Acts<\/i> 16 fills in the details.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>We learn that Timothy came from a mixed marriage &#8211; his mother was a Jewish Christian, his father was a Greek, and probably not a believer. <span>&nbsp;<\/span>Through his mother and grandmother Timothy came to believe in Jesus and then went on to join Paul and Silas on their mission trip.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">It is interesting to note: this partnership developed right after a disastrous falling out between Paul and Barnabas over John-Mark &#8212; another young man who disserted them on their first journey.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Paul takes a risk and invites Timothy.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Throughout Paul&#8217;s ministry, in his letters, and in the rest of <i>Acts<\/i>, the name &#8220;Timothy&#8221; appears time and again.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Paul even wrote him two pastoral essays &#8212; <i>I and II Timothy<\/i>.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Paul calls him &#8220;my son.&#8221;<span>&nbsp; <\/span>He&#8217;s becomes a pillar in the Church. <span>&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">But when we probe beneath the surface of Paul&#8217;s letters we sense something distinct in Timothy&#8217;s temperament.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>A little Biblical detective work uncovers&#8230;<span>&nbsp; <\/span>First, Timothy was sickly &#8211; <i>I Tim<\/i> 5:23.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Second, he was somewhat emotionally vulnerable.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Paul recalls his &#8220;tears&#8221; when they parted. Paul repeatedly exhorts him with phrases like &#8220;Be strong,&#8221; &#8220;Be a soldier, an athlete, a farmer,&#8221; &#8220;endure hardship&#8221; and &#8220;keep your head in all situations.&#8221;<span>&nbsp; <\/span>&#8220;Guard what has been entrusted to you.&#8221; &#8220;Stir up the gift in you.&#8221; Paul repeatedly bolsters Timothy&#8217;s <i>courage<\/i>.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">There were external reasons for this. Times are very difficult.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Persecution was hot.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>But Timothy seems to need special strength.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>He was naturally a timid soul. In the end Tim stands firm, but he does so against pressures from within his own personality <i>and<\/i> opposition from a hostile outside world. This is why Paul begins one letter to him, &#8220;God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, love, and self-discipline.&#8221; We could paraphrase this&#8230;&#8221;Tim, buck up your faith!&#8221; <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Two powerful influences forged Timothy&#8217;s life and countered the natural timidity of his personality: 1) Timothy inherited the faith heritage of his family.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>2) Timothy was bolstered by the faith of leaders in his Church community.<span>&nbsp; <\/span><i>Here<\/i> is beginning of faith. It was wrapped around him &#8212; his genetics and his environment!<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Today we&#8217;ll look at this first influence: a Godly family<\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Timothy had the faith of his mother and grandmother before him. It carried on through him! Timothy had a heritage. Faith was an heirloom. His family prayed with and for him! We can&#8217;t expect our children to stand in faith against fear if we can&#8217;t stand in faith against fear on their behalf! Unless we pray for them, they will fall back into the natural inclinations of their own fallen personalities! <span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">We rightly say that God has no grandkids. No one can &#8220;inherit&#8221; a relationship with God. But God transfers the blessings of one generation to another, through prayer and faith.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>My father, grandfather, great-grandfather were all preachers.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>That lineage, imperfect as it is makes a difference in me and my children. Your faith matters to your kids. They watch how we react when the dog chews up the carpet. They&#8217;ll watch how we pray!<span>&nbsp; <\/span>We can&#8217;t expect to have bold, believing kids when we aren&#8217;t bold and believing in prayer ourselves. <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">I hear to objections! How can we get rid of fear and replace it with faith in our own lives when our own fears are so deeply embedded?<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Well, faith doesn&#8217;t drop out of the sky. Faith isn&#8217;t magic. <i>Romans<\/i> 10:17 says that faith comes by <i>hearing<\/i>, and hearing comes from the Word of God.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Faith comes from exposure to the things God says. As a parent, unless you find your <i>own<\/i> faith, your own natural fears about life will infect your kids.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>The only answer is to build your personal faith &#8211; something comes by hearing the promises of scripture and then praying those promises back to God on behalf of our kids. <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Today&#8217;s challenge: Find a promise from God in the Bible and pray that promise to God on behalf of <i>your<\/i> children. Give that faith as an heirloom by praying on their behalf against the fears in your life and their&#8217;s. As you do you&#8217;ll be echoing the legacy of Timothy and his mother and grandmother, and proving again in your family the power of prayer! <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Praying for and with our children is the only sure formula for raising fear-resistant kids &#8212; kids with real faith. There&#8217;s a Biblical precedent for this in the New Testament story that played out in the life of a young man named Timothy. 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