{"id":124,"date":"2009-09-01T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-09-01T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/praying-back-to-school.html"},"modified":"2009-09-01T05:00:00","modified_gmt":"2009-09-01T05:00:00","slug":"praying-back-to-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayerplainandsimple\/2009\/09\/praying-back-to-school.html","title":{"rendered":"Praying Back to School"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">My 12 year old son Michael began middle school today. It was a big day for him, and for Jill and me, his parents. By all accounts Michael had an awesome and carefree summer: little league baseball with his friends, sleeping until 9:00 AM, catching northern pike to his heart&#8217;s content. It was the vacation of dreams. <\/font><\/font><\/span><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">But alas, school begins&#8230; And for Michael that now means entering the puberty infested world of junior-high-dom. <span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">We&#8217;ve been through it all before with our three older children, but the strange reluctance I feel every &#8220;first day of school&#8221; still haunts me. As he strapped on his backpack this morning, took a deep breath, hopped out of the car and headed toward his new classroom I was struck by the limited power I have over his life. I really control so little! <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Sure, he goes to a fine school, and his teacher is good, and most the kids in his class are respectable. But the fact is, school is out of my grasp. I&#8217;ve delegated influence, and I can&#8217;t control his experience there. When he&#8217;s home Jill and I can monitor his choices, to some extent. But &#8220;out there&#8221; in the &#8220;real world&#8221; of middle school Michael is much more on his own. <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">We know full well the dangers they face: bullying, ideas that run against our family values, the undeniable fact that schools can be Petri-dishes for strange viruses (H1N1), and acts of violence. And most of it no one can stop. <span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">My first reaction today was to let fear chill my blood. Then I caught myself. A quiet Voice whispered a simple charge: <em>&#8220;Pray! Pray for him.&#8221;<\/em> I took it to be God&#8217;s prompting.<em> &#8220;You can&#8217;t control his life, and you shouldn&#8217;t try. But I can. Pray, and I&#8217;ll give Michael my very best.&#8221; <\/em><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">I did. It wasn&#8217;t anything long or profound or grand or sacred. I simply spoke my insecurities and asked God for favor, <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><strong><em>&#8220;God, protect and bless Michael today in his new school. <\/em><\/strong><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><strong><em>Give him all he needs. Be with him.&#8221; <\/em><\/strong><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" align=\"center\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><strong><em><\/em><\/strong><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Jill and I bought him new shoes, pants and a shirt. He has a new insulated lunch box, and a fresh haircut. But none of that is really enough for his first day. What he really needs is God, and God&#8217;s favor. For that, the very best we can do is pray. <br \/><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\"><\/font><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><font size=\"3\"><font color=\"#000000\">Here&#8217;s a challenge: for the month of September I&#8217;ll be writing about prayers for our children. As they begin school, it&#8217;s a fitting topic I think. So if you have children, grandchildren, godchildren, nieces and nephews or young friends, dive into this discussion. Let&#8217;s pool our wisdom and experience and pray together for the children in our lives and let&#8217;s talk about what happens as a result. <\/font><\/font><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My 12 year old son Michael began middle school today. It was a big day for him, and for Jill and me, his parents. By all accounts Michael had an awesome and carefree summer: little league baseball with his friends, sleeping until 9:00 AM, catching northern pike to his heart&#8217;s content. 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