{"id":4822,"date":"2014-01-21T16:51:53","date_gmt":"2014-01-21T16:51:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayables\/?p=4822"},"modified":"2014-01-21T16:51:53","modified_gmt":"2014-01-21T16:51:53","slug":"12-tips-to-make-the-new-year-your-best-year-yet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayables\/2014\/01\/12-tips-to-make-the-new-year-your-best-year-yet.html","title":{"rendered":"12 Tips to Make the New Year Your Best Year Yet"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>\n<div id=\":of\">\n<div id=\":iu\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<p><em>Read More Gramma Wisdom Written by Susan Good @\u00a0<a title=\"Gramma Good\" href=\"http:\/\/grammagood.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Gramma Good<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I want all of us grammas and our families to have an upbeat year that is family and goal-oriented. As we all know, that requires sticking with our efforts. I guarantee you<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" alt=\"Dos and Donts for a New Year\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/proxy\/nb-udiQ_d4_Q5g3Yn0ocwNOdC4vttz3zeqErm_xQZ77VDxj712NuuPg_vm8xoneZB_v48_5bDBuVGtQEJ1HEcMMv4qTdOmxgRt9KUKuJLaVmNxQKygRRWKXtyeIDpYJi3qFAbBWMHLMb-JA=s0-d-e1-ft#grammagood.com\/2014\/01\/gg-2014bestyear-unedited-231x300.jpg\" width=\"231\" height=\"300\" \/>happiness. I am not saying it is not hard work, but as my husband tells this gramma, our children and our grandchildren, \u201cNothing good happens by accident.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few of my do\u2019s and don\u2019ts for the new year. They aren\u2019t hard to do \u2026 once you have made up your mind.<\/p>\n<p><b>DO<\/b>\u00a0<b>BE DISCIPLINED<\/b>. That is the #1 key ingredient for a successful, exciting, loving and interesting upbeat 2014.<\/p>\n<p><b>DON\u2019T<\/b>\u00a0<b>HAVE UNREALISTIC GOALS<\/b>. You will put yourself into an emotional funk.<\/p>\n<p><b>DO<\/b>\u00a0<b>BE OPEN-MINDED<\/b>. Choose an interest for yourself that you have been putting off and tackle it in the new year.<\/p>\n<p><b>DON\u2019T DO THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN.\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0That bores you.<\/p>\n<p><b>DO SHARE INSIGHTS.\u00a0<\/b>Sharing your thoughts with others you admire. That will expand your horizons.<\/p>\n<p><b>DON\u2019T LIVE INSIDE THE BOX.\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0Boring. Boring. Boring.<\/p>\n<p><b>DO KEEP YOUR LOVING RELATIONSHIP ALIVE.\u00a0<\/b>Relationships are like gardens. They need to be watered.\u00a0 Take the time to nurture your relationship with your husband or significant other.<\/p>\n<p><b>DON\u2019T FORGET YOUR PARTNER.\u00a0<\/b>That is your best friend.<\/p>\n<p><b>DO FOCUS ON YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN.\u00a0<\/b>Sunday night dinners! E-mails, texts, phone calls!\u00a0 Send keepsake gifts from gramma or mom through the mail.<\/p>\n<p><b>DON\u2019T USE EXCUSES.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>DO FOCUS ON YOUR PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH.\u00a0<\/b>It takes real discipline but this is another #1 key to happiness in the new year.<\/p>\n<p><b>DON\u2019T SAY \u201cI WILL START TOMORROW.\u201d\u00a0<\/b>Procrastinating won\u2019t get you anywhere! \u201cI will start tomorrow\u201d is the hardest part for all of us. This is what I have found. Once I force myself into the groove for a week, I get stimulated which creates discipline and happiness.<\/p>\n<p>DO Something GOOD Today: Stick with the do\u2019s and stay away from the don\u2019ts!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"gramma good\" src=\"https:\/\/ci5.googleusercontent.com\/proxy\/qleJzgADoL7S84YfhyJ7nINUsoLMJr4Pc8kCK21e7plOrZnPsS7FCvuhnSIKS06fdppW1NaQiJgS8vp6JnFLEdS8YCw-Jh65p-Vvq-YAP2RuFWLp_0KsHH_-PRjv9sP23Zzg16gg=s0-d-e1-ft#grammagood.com\/2013\/10\/grandma-good-signature-1-81.png\" width=\"213\" height=\"117\" \/><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Read More Gramma Wisdom Written by Susan Good @\u00a0Gramma Good I want all of us grammas and our families to have an upbeat year that is family and goal-oriented. As we all know, that requires sticking with our efforts. I guarantee you happiness. 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