{"id":3605,"date":"2012-02-08T16:22:39","date_gmt":"2012-02-08T16:22:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/?p=3605"},"modified":"2012-02-08T17:53:46","modified_gmt":"2012-02-08T17:53:46","slug":"touching-others-who-seem-untouchable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayables\/2012\/02\/touching-others-who-seem-untouchable.html","title":{"rendered":"Touching Others Who Seem Untouchable"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/files\/2012\/02\/untouchable.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3606\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/309\/2012\/02\/untouchable-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a>Emergency-room personnel transported him to the cardiac floor.\u00a0 Long hair,<br \/>\nunshaven, dirty, dangerously obese and a black motorcycle jacket tossed on<br \/>\nthe bottom shelf of the stretcher &#8211; an outsider to this sterile world of<br \/>\nshining terrazzo floors, efficient uniformed professionals and strict<br \/>\ninfection-control procedures.<\/p>\n<p>Definitely an untouchable!<\/p>\n<p>The nurses at the station looked wide-eyed as this mound of humanity was<br \/>\nwheeled by &#8211; each glancing nervously at my friend Bonnie, the head nurse.<br \/>\n&#8220;Let this one not be mine to admit, bathe and tend to&#8230;&#8221; was the<br \/>\npleading, unspoken message from their inner concern.<\/p>\n<p>One of the true marks of a leader, a consummate professional, is to do the<br \/>\nunthinkable.\u00a0 To touch the untouchable.\u00a0 To tackle the impossible.\u00a0 Yes,<br \/>\nit was Bonnie who said, &#8220;I want this patient myself.&#8221;\u00a0 Highly unusual for<br \/>\na head nurse &#8211; unconventional &#8211; but &#8220;the stuff&#8221; out of which human spirits<br \/>\nthrive, heal and soar.\u00a0 As she donned her latex gloves and proceeded to<br \/>\nbathe this huge, filthy man, her heart almost broke.\u00a0 Where was his<br \/>\nfamily? Who was his mother?\u00a0 What was he like as a little boy?<\/p>\n<p>She hummed quietly as she worked to ease the fear and embarrassment she<br \/>\nknew he must have been feeling.\u00a0 And then on a whim she said, &#8220;We don&#8217;t<br \/>\nhave time for back rubs much in hospitals these days, but I bet one would<br \/>\nreally feel good.\u00a0 And, it would help you relax your muscles and start to<br \/>\nheal.\u00a0 That is what this place is all about &#8211; a place to heal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>All in a day&#8217;s work.\u00a0 Touching the untouchable.<\/p>\n<p>His thick, scaly, ruddy skin told a story of an abusive lifestyle.<br \/>\nProbably lots of addictive behavior, to food, alcohol and drugs.\u00a0 As<br \/>\nBonnie rubbed the taut muscles, she hummed and prayed.\u00a0 Prayed for the<br \/>\nsoul of a little boy grown up, rejected by life&#8217;s rudeness and striving<br \/>\nfor acceptance in a hard, hostile world.<\/p>\n<p>The finale &#8211; warmed lotion and baby powder.\u00a0 Almost laughable &#8211; such a<br \/>\ncontrast on this huge, rugged surface.\u00a0 As he rolled over onto his back,<br \/>\ntears rolled down his cheek.\u00a0 With amazingly beautiful brown eyes, he<br \/>\nsmiled and said in a quivering voice, &#8220;No one has touched me for years.&#8221;<br \/>\nHis chin trembled.\u00a0 &#8220;Thank you.\u00a0 I am healing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In a day when we have increasing concern about the appropriateness of<br \/>\ntouch, Bonnie taught this hurting world to still dare to touch the<br \/>\nuntouchable through eye contact, a warm handshake, a concerned voice &#8211; or<br \/>\nthe physical reassurance of warmed lotion and baby powder.<\/p>\n<p><em>Christopher Ian Chenoweth, <a title=\"Positive Christianity\" href=\"http:\/\/www.positivechristianity.org\" target=\"_blank\">Positive Christianity<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"><strong>READ MORE and enjoy these features from the Daily Prayable! <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Story\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2012\/02\/touching-others-who-seem-untouchable.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Story<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Scripture\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2012\/02\/luke-513.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Scripture<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Prayer\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2012\/02\/your-healing-hands-your-healing-heart.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Prayer<br \/>\n<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Music\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2012\/02\/held-natalie-grant.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Music<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Joke\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2012\/02\/bats.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Joke<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Quote\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2012\/02\/wisdom-and-virtue.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Quote<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Emergency-room personnel transported him to the cardiac floor.\u00a0 Long hair, unshaven, dirty, dangerously obese and a black motorcycle jacket tossed on the bottom shelf of the stretcher &#8211; an outsider to this sterile world of shining terrazzo floors, efficient uniformed professionals and strict infection-control procedures. 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