{"id":3555,"date":"2012-02-06T15:10:56","date_gmt":"2012-02-06T15:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/?p=3555"},"modified":"2012-02-13T16:37:11","modified_gmt":"2012-02-13T16:37:11","slug":"its-not-personal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayables\/2012\/02\/its-not-personal.html","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s Not Personal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/files\/2012\/02\/Its-Not-Personal.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3556\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/309\/2012\/02\/Its-Not-Personal-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a>Talia came through the door of the church and instantly Dina knew something was wrong. Her posture told the story. Shoulders hunched over, feet shuffling along the ground and her head hung down. Talia tried to smile her way through obvious despair but it was useless.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>I just found out my position is eliminated for the next school year.<\/em>\u201d Music teacher, apparently expendable.\u00a0\u00a0 Here comes the hard part, what can Dina say: <em>I\u2019m sorry, that sucks, I know how you feel?<\/em> None of the above was necessary, Talia simply needed to vent.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>What really hurts is that they\u2019re saying music education isn\u2019t important, they don\u2019t value me. It\u2019s personal.<\/em>\u201d For twenty-five years she worked with the kids and brought more than just clef notes and chords to their lives. One of her students went on to become a well-known jazz pianist. Others walked away with a lifelong appreciation of music.<\/p>\n<p>Dina listened and finally offered a few words. 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