{"id":1345,"date":"2011-11-25T14:56:33","date_gmt":"2011-11-25T14:56:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/?p=1345"},"modified":"2011-11-25T15:48:46","modified_gmt":"2011-11-25T15:48:46","slug":"what-to-talk-about","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/prayables\/2011\/11\/what-to-talk-about.html","title":{"rendered":"What to Talk About"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/files\/2011\/11\/what-to-talk-about.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1346\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/309\/2011\/11\/what-to-talk-about-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a>Good advice isn\u2019t always easy to come by. Yet there\u2019s a bit of wisdom Diane relies on every time she goes shopping: \u201c<em>If it would look good in a children\u2019s size 6X or a woman\u2019s size 16, it\u2019s probably not the right style for me.<\/em>\u201d She credits her aunt, Mary Kelly, now departed, for giving her the wisdom to build a wardrobe appropriate for her body type and age.<\/p>\n<p>Aunt Mary was also savvy in the relationship department. Her advice was to read the paper before going out on a date and have a couple of interesting news items to discuss to keep the conversation flowing. Even though \u201cdating\u201d looks a little different today than in Mary\u2019s day, and Diane would be more likely to read the news on her iPhone, the fundamentals remain.<\/p>\n<p>How we converse is extremely important in social relationships. You can be true to yourself and still plan ahead when it comes to being engaging. Everyone enjoys smart and meaningful conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Paul Raushenbush is the senior editor of the Huffington Post religion section. It\u2019s his job to be conversational about spirituality. He\u2019ll tell you that the most shared posts are more \u201creligion-y\u201d than you would expect. He took his \u201cshow on the road\u201d and did interviews with people on the street where he asked the question: \u201c<em>What do you think about prayer?<\/em>\u201d And they told him. People love to talk about prayer, even if they don\u2019t believe in it.<\/p>\n<p>We learn from Paul, and Aunt Mary, that there\u2019s a hunger for substance in conversation. We\u2019re all looking for ah-ha moments in our everyday lives. Be the giver of stimulating and thought-provoking topics the next time someone says, \u201cWhat\u2019s new?\u201d Share something worldly, share something personal, and share something spiritual.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Prayables.com\" href=\"http:\/\/prayables.com\" target=\"_blank\"><em>-Prayables<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"><strong>READ MORE and Enjoy these features from the Daily Prayable! <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Story\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2011\/11\/what-to-talk-about.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Story<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Scripture\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2011\/11\/ephesians-429.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Scripture<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Prayer\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2011\/11\/what-the-hummingbird-told-me.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Prayer<br \/>\n<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Video\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2011\/11\/this-is-the-stuff-francesca-battistelli.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Video<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Joke\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2011\/11\/new-teeth.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Joke<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2192 <a title=\"Daily Quote\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/prayables\/2011\/11\/echoes-of-kind-words.html\" target=\"_blank\">Daily Quote<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good advice isn\u2019t always easy to come by. 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