{"id":825,"date":"2010-06-30T10:04:15","date_gmt":"2010-06-30T10:04:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2010\/06\/paranormal-activity-did-the-al.html"},"modified":"2010-06-30T10:04:15","modified_gmt":"2010-06-30T10:04:15","slug":"paranormal-activity-did-the-al","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2010\/06\/paranormal-activity-did-the-al.html","title":{"rendered":"Paranormal Activity.  Did the alien make YOU eat it?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I received the following E-emergency note the other night from a client of mine &#8211; who by the way &#8211; has permanently removed 18 pounds in the past 12 weeks.<br \/>\nI thought it worth sharing, because I know that we all have<strong> &#8216;alien&#8217;<\/strong> voices in our heads that <strong>&#8216;make&#8217; us eat<\/strong> the donut, cookie, ice cream, pizza.  That&#8217;s right &#8230; you are not alone.  Seems we all have an <strong>alien voice<\/strong> that <strong>&#8216;makes&#8217; us<\/strong> go hog wild.<br \/>\n&#8220;<em><strong>Janice!!<\/strong><\/em> HELP! There is some alien in my body trying to tell me I want cookies, ice cream, candy.  Make it stop!! <strong><em>~ Love, Joy <\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><strong>Dear Alien<\/strong><\/em> &#8230; Joy promised herself that she would NOT eat JUNK food today.  A simple promise.<br \/>\nIf she gives into JUNK, she will feel bad. She will feel a kind of loss. Thing is once one sets a goal or promises themselves something, their brains believe it to already be so.  So, on the deepest levels Joy&#8217;s brain believes that she already let go of JUNK.  As you can imagine, if she now has some, she will feel just awful.  She will feel loss.<br \/>\nNow, I&#8217;m guessing &#8211; Ms. or Mr. Alien &#8211; that neither one of us want Joy to feel bad.  Do we?   We want her to be happy. Right? We want Joy to be joyful!<br \/>\nI know it&#8217;s tough for you, Alien.  You&#8217;re voice has been heard, loud and clear, for a long time. We respect your power.  We (Joy and I) are going to take some time together and see if we can&#8217;t find you another job.  Something else for you to be in charge of.  If you, Alien, have any helpful thoughts on what you might &#8216;man&#8217; for Joy, let us know.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s right &#8211; Alien &#8211; you can help Joy focus on something positive.  Yes, you can!<br \/>\nJoy deserves to have a happy and healthy life.  Junk won&#8217;t do it.  So, Alien, again, we welcome your helpful and useful suggestions. <em><strong> Love, Janice<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\nMy response to Joy&#8217;s email, FYI &#8230; helped her enormously.  Not only did she smile &#8211; even laugh &#8211; she got into it.  She&#8217;s busy creating new and useful inner-positive-conversations, as she not only permanently removes her excess weight &#8211; but as she changes her belief systems and thinking.  Cheers and Kudos to JOY!! You Rock, Joy!<br \/>\nNow, I&#8217;d like to <big><strong>ask YOUR inner-Alien<\/strong><\/big> &#8230; &#8220;Alien to my Beliefnet friends and Kick in the Tush Club members and all those out there who happened to stumble across my blog,  How might you create a new position for yourself?  You sure are powerful, smart, clever and have a strong voice that we all hear.  You can still be an Alien.  We don&#8217;t want to take anything away from you or make you go away.  We just want to live in a more harmonious inner-house with you.&#8221;<br \/>\nPlease &#8230; do let me know what your Alien is up to and what your inner-conversation with your alien looks like!<br \/>\n<em>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing!<br \/>\nJanice<\/em><br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\nCurious about coaching and how Janice Taylor can help you live your best life? <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">Write Janice<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Follow Janice on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/OurLady\">Twitter<\/a> and\/or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/home.php#\/profile.php?sid=d82081eb96fa8033ec096ad6ccfd2b0a&amp;id=557881698&amp;hiq=janice%2Ctaylor\">Facebook<\/a>! <\/p>\n<p>Join the <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kick_in_the_tush_club\"><strong>Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s Kick in the Tush Club<\/strong><\/a>: <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Beliefnet\" title=\"Beliefnet\" rel=\"wikipedia\">Beliefnet<\/a> Chapter.<\/p>\n<p>Visit:  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\">www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I received the following E-emergency note the other night from a client of mine &#8211; who by the way &#8211; has permanently removed 18 pounds in the past 12 weeks. 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