{"id":782,"date":"2010-05-13T14:27:34","date_gmt":"2010-05-13T14:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2010\/05\/fatitude-adjustment-optional-s.html"},"modified":"2010-05-13T14:27:34","modified_gmt":"2010-05-13T14:27:34","slug":"fatitude-adjustment-optional-s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2010\/05\/fatitude-adjustment-optional-s.html","title":{"rendered":"Fatitude Adjustment: Optional Suffering"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"KICKOL-LOGO.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/KICKOL-LOGO.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"215\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span>In order to permanently remove your excess weight, you&#8217;ve got to suffer, right?  Wrong!!!   I am here to assure you that Permanent Fat Removal does not equal suffering!  It&#8217;s totally optional!<br \/>\n<strong>How did I come to this conclusion that y&#8217;all think you need to suffer?<\/strong><br \/>\nBecause you write me (thank you &#8211; keep them cards and notes a comin&#8217;), and you make &#8216;declarations of suffering&#8217;.<br \/>\n&#8220;I am suffering.&#8221; &#8220;I suffer.&#8221; &#8220;It is soooo difficult to lose weight (more suffering).&#8221; &#8220;I suffer with my . . . &#8221; &#8220;I have suffered with weight loss my entire life.&#8221; &#8220;It is impossible &#8230;&#8221; &#8220;I never &#8230;&#8221; &#8220;I can&#8217;t &#8230;&#8221; Platterfuls of suffering!<br \/>\nNow listen up.  I&#8217;m not going to tell you that permanent fat removal is easy &#8211; primarily because you&#8217;ll be plenty peeved at me &#8211; but I am going to tell you that it is as difficult as you make it.<br \/>\nSo &#8230; returning to the original premise that you have a deep seated belief in your tush that needs kickin that you must suffer, I am here to tell you that the &#8216;no pain, no gain&#8217; aspect of permanent fat removal is not only an inaccurate belief, it is also counter- productive.<br \/>\n<strong>OPTIONAL SUFFERING<\/strong><br \/>\nWhatever your suffering beliefs, they are optional. Your choice. Not necessary. Give it up!<br \/>\nGet the &#8216;mind-clearing eraser&#8217; out and wipe the &#8216;suffering slate&#8217; clean! Suffering has a less-than-desirable effect on our minds, hearts, reality and WEIGHT!<br \/>\nLeave the suffering at the door (or in the comment box below). No point in dragging it with you throughout the day. It will surely weigh you down.<br \/>\n<strong>More weight loss motivation:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/10\/10-ways-to-curb-conquer-and-co.html\">10 Ways to Curb<\/a> Nighttime Eating!!!<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/05\/mental-health-now-feeling-blue.html\">Need a Mood Lift<\/a>?<br \/>\n<strong><em>Spread the word &#8230; NOT icing!<br \/>\nJanice<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\n<strong>Join with Janice Taylor, your Life &amp; Wellness Coach, at Omega<\/strong>:<br \/>\nOur Lady of Weight Loss EnLIGHTens; Health, Happiness &amp; Well-Being &#8211; Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Wellness Coach, Hypnotist, author &amp; 55 pound big-time-loser, is on a mission.  She wants to make health and weight loss fun and create balance and harmony in our life.  For more information about her life-changing workshop at The Omega Institute, our nation&#8217;s most trusted source for wellness and personal growth &#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eomega.org\/omega\/workshops\/0fdc3a8dcc71f2f84a729e85696a16c6\/\">READ ON<\/a>!<br \/>\nCurious about coaching and how Janice Taylor can help you live your best life? <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">Write Janice<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Follow Janice on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/OurLady\">Twitter<\/a> and\/or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/home.php#\/profile.php?sid=d82081eb96fa8033ec096ad6ccfd2b0a&amp;id=557881698&amp;hiq=janice%2Ctaylor\">Facebook<\/a>! <\/p>\n<p>Join the <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kick_in_the_tush_club\"><strong>Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s Kick in the Tush Club<\/strong><\/a>: <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Beliefnet\" title=\"Beliefnet\" rel=\"wikipedia\">Beliefnet<\/a> Chapter.<\/p>\n<p>Visit:  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\">www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to permanently remove your excess weight, you&#8217;ve got to suffer, right? 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