{"id":6117,"date":"2014-12-17T11:58:39","date_gmt":"2014-12-17T16:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/?p=6117"},"modified":"2014-12-17T11:58:39","modified_gmt":"2014-12-17T16:58:39","slug":"chewing-the-fat-whats-your-worst-thing-ever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2014\/12\/chewing-the-fat-whats-your-worst-thing-ever.html","title":{"rendered":"Chewing the Fat: What&#8217;s Your Worst Thing Ever?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5408\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5408\" style=\"width: 347px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-5408\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/2014\/01\/OL-Perpetual-SelfHelp-2014-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Your Gain Is My Pain!  Contact Janice Taylor, Weight Loss Coach, Hypnotherapist, Author, Artist, Positarian\" width=\"347\" height=\"231\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5408\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Your Gain Is My Pain! Contact Janice Taylor, Weight Loss Coach, Hypnotherapist, Author, Artist, Positarian<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dear OLofWL (a.k.a. Janice), Yesterday was truly an awful day, and I realized that if I want to permanently lose weight, then I must follow the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com\" target=\"_blank\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a>&#8216;s &#8220;bite it\/write it&#8221; rule.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, &#8220;If I bite it, I must write it.&#8221; I want you to know that I am upset to think that I must write &#8220;it&#8221; down. This is the worst thing for me to have to do for the rest of my life. &#8230;. ~ A.F.<\/p>\n<p>Dear A.F. ~ Before I fully respond to your email, I am asking &#8211; not judging &#8211; just clarifying, <em><strong>do you mean that keeping a food diary for the rest of your life is the worst thing that could happen to you<\/strong><\/em>? <em><strong>Really, the worst thing that could happen?<\/strong><\/em> Again, no judgment, just clarifying. ~ OLofWL<\/p>\n<p>Dear OLofWL ~ When you put it that way, it does sound silly of me. Maybe I am a drama queen. I started writing this morning and it wasn&#8217;t so bad after all. There are a lot of things that I am going to face that will be more dificult than this. &#8230;. ~ A.F.<\/p>\n<p>Dear A.F. ~ First I want to say that you are a brave soul. You spoke your truth, felt your feelings, self-reflected and self-corrected. When I first started on my journal to Sveltesville, I felt the same way. I felt that having to limit my intake of food was unfair and burdensome. It felt like a life sentence. I was suffering, and I had a &#8220;right to suffer,&#8221; as do you. And then after we all suffer, we have an obligation to dig deep into our inner-resources, and find a way to do just what you did; deal with &#8220;the challenge&#8221; in a positive way, water the seeds of optimism and move on. Good job! Brava! ~ OLofWL<\/p>\n<p>Remember, Tushkateers:\u00a0 Statistics tell us that those who &#8220;Bite It and Write It&#8221; are more successful on their weight loss journeys than those who do not keep a food journal.\u00a0 It is not a punishment from G_d.\u00a0 It is merely a tool that works.<\/p>\n<p>Remember to Self-Reflect, Self-Correct and Water the Seeds of Optimism.<br \/>\nSuccess will be yours.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes&#8230;it&#8217;s just that simple.<\/p>\n<p>Optimistically yours,<\/p>\n<p>Janice<\/p>\n<p>Sign up for the KICK in the TUSH CLUB monthly e-newsletter, <a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/lptrack.html?OurLadyofWeightLoss::711::http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\" target=\"_blank\">sign up here<\/a>.<br \/>\nTo join the FACEBOOK\/KITT Club, <a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/lptrack.html?OurLadyofWeightLoss::711::https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/30757154492\/\" target=\"_blank\">click here<\/a>!<br \/>\nFor one-on-one coaching, <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com?subject=Yes%2C%20I%20am%20interested%20in%20working%20with%20you.&amp;body=Yes%2C%20I\" target=\"_blank\">contact Janice<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear OLofWL (a.k.a. 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