{"id":5884,"date":"2014-08-28T11:29:27","date_gmt":"2014-08-28T15:29:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/?p=5884"},"modified":"2014-08-28T11:32:14","modified_gmt":"2014-08-28T15:32:14","slug":"oneword-thursday-loss-letting-go-is-the-lesson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2014\/08\/oneword-thursday-loss-letting-go-is-the-lesson.html","title":{"rendered":"#OneWord Thursday:  #Loss &#8211; Letting Go Is the Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3595\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3595\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3595\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/2012\/04\/hypnosis-magid-doorway-300x267.jpg\" alt=\"Magic doorway to Sveltesville by Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Wellness Coach, Weight Loss Expert, Positarian\" width=\"300\" height=\"267\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3595\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Magic doorway to Sveltesville by Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Wellness Coach, Weight Loss Expert, Positarian<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I\u2019ve often wondered how the words \u201cweight loss\u201d resonate with our psyche. The mere mention of either word often brings forth a myriad of uncomfortable thoughts and feelings. Imagine the two strung together.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, as a Weight Loss Coach, I\u2019ve tried using other words and phrases, i.e. slim down, let go of excess weight, and permanent fat removal, in an effort to create a lighter, more comfortable path on which to walk.<\/p>\n<p>Still, we are losing something; aren\u2019t we?\u00a0 Not only losing our excess weight, but our identity as well. Are we losing a part of ourselves?<\/p>\n<p>What losses are associated with weight loss, other than the actual weight?<br \/>\nAnd how do you feel about those losses?<\/p>\n<p><em>Here, 10 Quotes about Loss to help you ponder.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u201cLetting go is the lesson. Letting go is always the lesson. Have you ever noticed how much of our agony is all tied up with craving and loss?\u201d ~ Susan Gordon Lydon<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLoss alone is but the wounding of a heart; it is memory that makes it our ruin.\u201d ~ Brian Ruckley<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere really is only one ending to any story. Human life ends in death. Until then, it keeps going and gets complicated and there&#8217;s loss. Everything involves loss; every relationship ends in one way or another.\u201d ~ Charlie Kaufman<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI guess by now I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence.\u201d ~ Alyson Noel<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever finally comes to realize that nothing really belongs to them.\u201d ~ Paul Coelho<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt the temple there is a poem called &#8220;Loss&#8221; carved into the stone. It has three words, but the poet has scratched them out. You cannot read loss, only feel it.\u201d ~ Arthur Golden, Memoirs of a Geisha<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou don&#8217;t know who is important to you until you actually lose them.\u201d ~ Mahatma Gandhi<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt sucks that we miss people like that. You think you&#8217;ve accepted that someone is out of your life, that you&#8217;ve grieved and it&#8217;s over, and then bam. One little thing, and you feel like you&#8217;ve lost that person all over again.\u201d ~ Rachel Hawkins<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn time, in time they tell me, I&#8217;ll not feel so bad. I don&#8217;t want time to heal me. There&#8217;s a reason I&#8217;m like this. I want time to set me ugly and knotted with loss of you, marking me. I won&#8217;t smooth you away. I can&#8217;t say goodbye.\u201d ~ China Mieville<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGone. The saddest word in the language. In any language.\u201d ~ Mark Slouka<\/p>\n<p>Hungry for more life-blowing, mind-blowing, fat-blowing quotes?\u00a0 Join Our Lady of Weight Loss\u2019s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/30757154492\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kick in the Tush Club\/FB<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For the full skinny sign up for Janice Taylor\u2019s (monthly)<a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\" target=\"_blank\"> Kick in the Tush Club newsletter<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Spread the Word-\u2013NOT the icing!<\/p>\n<p>Janice Taylor, Life and Wellness Coach<br \/>\n<em>Weight Loss Expert, Author, Artist<\/em>, <em>Positarian<\/em><br \/>\n\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014-<br \/>\nFor the best life, wellness and weight loss wisdom,<br \/>\nvisit Janice: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com\" target=\"_blank\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><br \/>\nSign up for the <a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\" target=\"_blank\"> Kick in the Tush Club newsletter<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve often wondered how the words \u201cweight loss\u201d resonate with our psyche. 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