{"id":5855,"date":"2014-08-13T09:37:45","date_gmt":"2014-08-13T13:37:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/?p=5855"},"modified":"2014-08-13T09:37:45","modified_gmt":"2014-08-13T13:37:45","slug":"chewing-the-fat-miss-chocolate-chiffon-calling-your-name","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2014\/08\/chewing-the-fat-miss-chocolate-chiffon-calling-your-name.html","title":{"rendered":"Chewing the Fat:  Miss Chocolate Chiffon Calling Your Name?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5074\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5074\" style=\"width: 233px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/files\/2013\/08\/Ms-Chocolate-Chiffon.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-5074\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/2013\/08\/Ms-Chocolate-Chiffon-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"Craving Chocolate? by Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Weight Loss Coach, Anti-Gravity Expert (come fly with me)!\" width=\"233\" height=\"351\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5074\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Craving Chocolate? by Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Weight Loss Coach, Anti-Gravity Expert (come fly with me)!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>Dear <a href=\"http:\/\/www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com\" target=\"_blank\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><\/em> ~ I was sitting at my desk, feeling just fine, minding my own business, thinking about work, all the things that I needed to do, and then out of nowhere. I swear, out of NO-Where, a craving came rolling through that literally knocked me off my &#8220;tush,&#8221; and landed me straight in front of a vending machine.<\/p>\n<p>Quarters, dimes and nickels in my hand (again, where did they come from), I inserted my change into the machine, hit buttons and out came a candy bar to my liking. Next thing you know, I am back at my desk chomping through the bar, and finally licking the packaging that it had been wrapped in, hoping for another quick jolt of &#8220;heaven.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Can you explain this to me? Where did the craving come from? How did I manage to have the right amount of change in my hand for the vending machine? It\u2019s not like I planned any of it. It just happened. <em>~ T.W.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Dear T.W.<\/em> ~ A craving, a.k.a. an intense desire that leaves you longing for a certain kind of food, can be triggered from a variety of places.\u00a0 Situations can trigger food cravings, conversations, commercials on the radio or television, pretty much anything.\u00a0 It&#8217;s different for each of us.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it feels like the craving is in control and that you are powerless, having an out of body experience.\u00a0 Still, there are ways to get a grip And NOT succumb to the craving.<\/p>\n<p>The KEY!!! <em>Cravings are Thoughts.<\/em>\u00a0 Instead of experiencing cravings as cravings, see them for what they really are. They are just thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>Cravings are just one of the many thousands of thoughts that we have each day. They are not &#8220;concrete&#8221; in nature. They are like the clouds rolling in and out.\u00a0 They are simply suggestions.\u00a0 A thought is a suggestion, which means that not every thought needs to be acted upon.<\/p>\n<p>Wave hello to the &#8220;craving thought,&#8221; and say, \u201cHi Craving \u2026 Nice to see you.\u00a0 Here\u2019s your hat.\u00a0 What\u2019s your hurry?!\u201d Send the craving thought on its way!<\/p>\n<p>Make \u201cI do not have to act on my thoughts. I have a choice!\u201d your mantra.<\/p>\n<p>I know that there are some people who are reading this and thinking that seeing cravings as thoughts and making a conscious choice won\u2019t work, or maybe it&#8217;ll work for other people, but their cravings are too strong, etc.\u00a0 More thoughts, more suggestions are being produced by your very clever minds.<\/p>\n<p>How resistant are you to trying something that works?\u00a0 Remember that thoughts are suggestions and that you do not have to follow them.<\/p>\n<p>I hope that helps, TW, and all who have had or will have cravings (every single one of us). <em><strong>~ OLofWL<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>How to you manage your cravings? Share your thoughts below or join Our Lady of Weight Loss\u2019s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/30757154492\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kick in the Tush Club\/FB<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For the full skinny as well as Anti-Gravity Specials, sign up for Janice Taylor\u2019s (monthly)<a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\" target=\"_blank\"> Kick in the Tush Club newsletter<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Spread the Word-\u2013NOT the icing!<\/p>\n<p>Janice Taylor, Anti-Gravity Coach<em> ~ Come Fly With Me!<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Weight Loss Expert, Positarian, Author, Artist<\/em><br \/>\n\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014-<br \/>\nFor the best life, wellness and weight loss wisdom,<br \/>\nvisit Janice: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com\" target=\"_blank\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><br \/>\nSign up for the <a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\" target=\"_blank\"> Kick in the Tush Club newsletter<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Our Lady of Weight Loss ~ I was sitting at my desk, feeling just fine, minding my own business, thinking about work, all the things that I needed to do, and then out of nowhere. 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