{"id":576,"date":"2009-10-16T07:52:20","date_gmt":"2009-10-16T07:52:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/10\/spiritual-weight-loss-from-suz.html"},"modified":"2009-10-16T07:52:20","modified_gmt":"2009-10-16T07:52:20","slug":"spiritual-weight-loss-from-suz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/10\/spiritual-weight-loss-from-suz.html","title":{"rendered":"Spiritual Weight Loss &#8230; from Suzie Winfrey?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Oprah from the Our Lady of Weight Loss Weight Loss Art Gallery\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/dog%20oprah%20copy.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"252\" class=\"mt-image-center\" style=\"text-align: center;margin: 0 auto 20px\" \/><\/span>A Tushkateer (<a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kickinthetushclub\">Kick in the Tush Club <\/a>member) sent me a super-sized motivational portion of a speech that Oprah Winfrey gave to the graduating class of 2007 at Howard University in Washington, D.C.<br \/>\nFor those of you who have already seen it, read it and loved it, please take it in again, on a deeper level.  Chew over the meaning!  And for those of you who are reading this for the first time, get ready for a platterful of motivation!  Digest every tasty morsel and comment below.  Oprah&#8217;s words linger and satisfy!<br \/>\n&#8220;So here are a few things I want you to know that I know for sure. Don&#8217;t be afraid.<br \/>\nAll you have to know is who you are. Because there is no such thing as failure.<br \/>\nThere is no such thing as failure.<br \/>\n&#8220;What other people label or might try to call failure, I have learned is just God&#8217;s<br \/>\nway of pointing you in a new direction.<br \/>\n&#8220;Your calling isn&#8217;t something that somebody can tell you about. It&#8217;s what you feel.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a part of your life force. It is the thing that gives you juice. The things<br \/>\nthat are you supposed to do. And nobody can tell you what that is. You know it<br \/>\ninside yourself.<br \/>\n&#8220;You know, I come from good stock. Dr. Swygert was mentioning my grandmother who had a dream for me. And her dream was not a big dream. Her dream was that one day I could grow up &#8212; she used to say, I want you to grow up and get yourself some good white folks, because my grandmother was a maid and she worked for white folks her whole life.<br \/>\n&#8220;And her idea of having a big dream was to have white folks who at least treated her<br \/>\nwith some dignity, who showed her a little bit respect. And she used to say, I want you to &#8212; I hope you get some good white folks that are kind to you. And I regret that she didn&#8217;t live past 1963 to see that I did grow up and get some really good white folks working for me.<br \/>\n&#8220;I spent eight years in Baltimore. I knew in those years in Baltimore that I was<br \/>\nunhappy being a television news reporter. But the voice of my father, who thought<br \/>\nhe knew what I was supposed to do was in my head. He said don&#8217;t you give up that<br \/>\njob, girl. You&#8217;re never going to make $25,000 in one year. That&#8217;s my father&#8217;s<br \/>\ndream for me. But God could dream a bigger dream than you can dream for yourself.<br \/>\nAnd so I tried to live in the space of God&#8217;s dream. And the television executives<br \/>\ntold me when I was in Baltimore that I was just &#8212; it was too much. I was too big,<br \/>\nand I was too black.<br \/>\n&#8220;They told me that I was too engaged, that I was too emotional, I was too &#8212; too much<br \/>\nfor the news and so they put me on a talk show one day just to run out my contract.<br \/>\nAnd that was the beginning of my story. So I say, even when things are difficult,<br \/>\nbe grateful. Honor your calling; don&#8217;t worry about how successful you will be.<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t worry about it. Focus on how significant you can be in service and the<br \/>\nsuccess will take care of itself. And always take a stand for yourself. Your values,<br \/>\nyou are defined by what you stand for. Your integrity is not for sale.<br \/>\n&#8220;From the very beginning of my career in Baltimore, and I walked in the room and all<br \/>\nof the men in the room said to me you need to change your name, because nobody is<br \/>\ngoing to remember your name. You need to change your name and I said what do you<br \/>\nwant me to change it to? They said we think Susie is a good name. Susie is a friendly<br \/>\nname. Susie is a name that people will remember. People can relate to Susie. I said<br \/>\nI think I&#8217;m going to keep my name if people remember it or not. It is my name. You<br \/>\nhave to be willing to stand up for what you believe in. If I &#8212; if I could count the<br \/>\nnumber of times I have been asked to compromise and sell out myself for one reason<br \/>\nor another, I would be a billionaire 10 times over. My integrity is not for sale<br \/>\nand neither is yours.&#8221;<br \/>\nFor the full speech and video, please visit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.graduationwisdom.com\/speeches\/0024-winfrey.htm\">Graduation<br \/>\n<strong>More Weighty Inspiration<\/strong>:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/08\/neuroscience-you-cannot-break.html\">Neuroscience:  Old Habits Die Hard<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/07\/kirstie-alley-stuck-in-a-fat-s.html\">Kirstie Alley: Stuck in a Fat Suit<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/04\/celebrate-failure.html\">Celebrate Failure<\/a>!<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/10\/columbus-day-special-wake-up-t.html\">Reserve your seat at the Holiday Table!<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/10\/columbus-day-special-wake-up-t.html\">The Holiday Diet: Wake Up Thinner!<\/a><br \/>\n<em>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the Icing!<br \/>\nJanice<\/em><br \/>\n________________________________<br \/>\nDoes your weight loss chart look like an EKG?<br \/>\nIn need of a coach? 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