{"id":5648,"date":"2014-05-14T07:03:02","date_gmt":"2014-05-14T11:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/?p=5648"},"modified":"2014-05-14T07:03:02","modified_gmt":"2014-05-14T11:03:02","slug":"iamsuffering-are-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2014\/05\/iamsuffering-are-you.html","title":{"rendered":"#IAmSuffering &#8211; Are You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_5142\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5142\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/files\/2013\/09\/OL-of-Extreme-Happiness-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5142\" alt=\"End Optional Suffering:  Think Happy Thoughts by Janice Taylor, Weight Loss Artist, Positarian\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/2013\/09\/OL-of-Extreme-Happiness-2-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5142\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">End Optional Suffering: Think Happy Thoughts by Janice Taylor, Weight Loss Artist, Positarian<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong><em>Are You Suffering<\/em>?<\/strong> The <em>\u2018agreed upon reality\u2019<\/em> is that in order for you to lose weight that you must suffer. The consensus of opinion is that slimming down requires an inordinate amount of effort, self-discipline, and tremendous effort.\u00a0 Ugh! Yes? No? Maybe?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Do you believe that you must suffer?\u00a0<\/strong><\/em> Do you agree that permanent fat removal; living a healthy life requires great and painful suffering?\u00a0 Because, you know, it&#8217;s optional!<\/p>\n<p>Yup, your suffering is optional, as in you don&#8217;t have to suffer if you don&#8217;t want to.\u00a0 You can let go of the struggle in any moment, at any time, like now.\u00a0 Yes!\u00a0 Now!<\/p>\n<p><em><b>Optional Suffering:<\/b><\/em>\u00a0 It\u2019s not necessary and, if anything, it will only serve to weigh you down, slow your process and progress.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>How to End Optional Suffering<\/em>!\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0 Know that it is <strong>your thought<\/strong> about something, about an event, about a person that<strong> is causing the suffering. \u00a0<\/strong>2.\u00a0 Remember that <strong>thoughts are<\/strong> not necessarily accurate; they are merely <strong>suggestions<\/strong>.<br \/>\n3.\u00a0 <strong>Question the thoughts<\/strong> that cause your suffering.<\/p>\n<p>For more motivational musings, join Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/30757154492\/\" target=\"_blank\">KICK in the TUSH CLUB\/FB<\/a>!<\/p>\n<div id=\"r1PostCPBlock\">\n<p><em>Spread the Love\u2013NOT the icing,<\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"r1PostCPBlock\">\n<p><em>Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Wellness Coach,\u00a0Author, Artist, Positarian<\/em><br \/>\n<em> wise * fun * utterly useful<br \/>\n<\/em>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014-<br \/>\nFor the best life, wellness and weight loss wisdom,<br \/>\nvisit Janice:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.OurLadyofWeightLoss.com\" target=\"_blank\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><strong><em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong>sign up for the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Newsletter\/SignupProcess.aspx\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Kick in the Tush Club<\/em><\/a> e-newsletter!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are You Suffering? 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