{"id":521,"date":"2009-08-25T07:41:26","date_gmt":"2009-08-25T07:41:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/08\/make-it-or-break-it-why-are-yo.html"},"modified":"2009-08-25T07:41:26","modified_gmt":"2009-08-25T07:41:26","slug":"make-it-or-break-it-why-are-yo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/08\/make-it-or-break-it-why-are-yo.html","title":{"rendered":"Make It or Break It: Why are you keeping your fat clothes?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Fat Suit.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/Dog%20art%20suit%20small.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"223\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0 0 20px 20px\" \/><\/span><br \/>\nEight years ago, when the Scales of Injustice (in this case the Scales of Justice) reflected that I had miraculously lost 50 pounds, I celebrated by ripping through my closet, pulling out and tearing down all my fat clothes and sorting them into three piles.<br \/>\nWhile I was doing the happy shimmy, the phone rang.  &#8220;Hellooooo,&#8221; I sang.<br \/>\n<em>It was my mother-in-law.  &#8220;Hi!  You sound happy.  What are you doing?&#8221;<\/em><br \/>\n&#8220;I&#8217;m getting rid of my fat clothes! I&#8217;m bundling them up and taking them to Goodwill!&#8221; I replied.<br \/>\n<em>&#8220;You are?  Why are you giving away your fat clothes? What will you do when you gain the weight back?&#8221;<\/em><br \/>\nBefore you get angry at my mother-in-law, she truly meant no harm.  Losing it and gaining it was her experience of not just me, but of herself and numerous friends who had gone the &#8216;lose it &#8211; find it&#8217; route.<br \/>\n&#8220;Precisely!  I am not going to gain it back this time.  We&#8217;re talking permanent fat removal, and it is gone for good. I am going to <strong>make it<\/strong> and nothing is going to <strong>break it<\/strong>!&#8221;<br \/>\nActually, I felt more inspired than ever to live up to those words. <em>I am going to make it and nothing is going to get in my way, weigh me down, or break my resolve.<\/em>  I returned to my shimmy and sorting!<br \/>\nI made three piles:<br \/>\nPile 1- Clothing to be altered.<br \/>\nPile 2- Clothing to be given away &#8211; i.e. donated.<br \/>\nPile 3 -Clothing to be throw away &#8211; the ripped and faded.<br \/>\nI bundled the clothing to be donated and took straight to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodwill.org\/page\/guest\/about\/howweoperate\/donate\">Goodwill<\/a>.  Last year, more than 58 million people donated to Goodwill. There are more than 3,300 Goodwill donations locations in North America (one has to be near you).<br \/>\n<em>Why are you keeping your fat clothes?<\/em><br \/>\n<strong>More make it or break it tips:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/08\/diet-tip-how-to-get-rid-of-dea.html\">How to get rid of dead weight<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/08\/more-to-love-episode-4-are-you.html\">More to Love, Are YOU Bad?<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/08\/quick-weight-loss-caffeine.html\">Quick Weight Loss Center: Caffeine<\/a><br \/>\nSpread the word &#8230; <em>not<\/em> the icing!<br \/>\nJanice<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br \/>\nFollow Janice on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/OurLady\">Twitter<\/a> and\/or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/home.php#\/profile.php?sid=d82081eb96fa8033ec096ad6ccfd2b0a&amp;id=557881698&amp;hiq=janice%2Ctaylor\">Facebook<\/a>!<br \/>\n<strong>Required Reading<\/strong>:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Our-Lady-Weight-Loss-Motivational\/dp\/B000QRIHY8\/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_b\"><strong>Our Lady of Weight Loss: Miraculous and Motivational Musings from the Patron Saint of Permanent Fat Removal<\/strong><\/a> an <strong>OPRAH BOOK CLUB<\/strong> pick: Summer 2009 &#8211; Buy NOW!<br \/>\nJoin the <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kick_in_the_tush_club\"><strong>Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s Kick in the Tush Club<\/strong><\/a>: <a class=\"zem_slink\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Beliefnet\" title=\"Beliefnet\" rel=\"wikipedia\">Beliefnet<\/a> Chapter.<br \/>\nWrite Janice Taylor, Weight Loss Coach, Certified Hypnotist, Author and 50-pound big-time-loser for an introductory <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">one-on-one coaching<\/a> session.<br \/>\nVisit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a>.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ART heart.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/ART%20heart.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" height=\"34\" width=\"34\"><\/span> <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"> about Janice<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My mother-in-law said, &#8220;Why are you giving away your fat clothes? 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