{"id":3347,"date":"2012-02-16T15:35:07","date_gmt":"2012-02-16T20:35:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/?p=3347"},"modified":"2012-02-16T15:40:17","modified_gmt":"2012-02-16T20:40:17","slug":"fat-is-folly-4-steps-to-postive-self-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2012\/02\/fat-is-folly-4-steps-to-postive-self-talk.html","title":{"rendered":"Fat is Folly:  4 Steps to Postive Self-Talk"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/files\/2012\/02\/AD-fat-is-folly.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3348\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/2012\/02\/AD-fat-is-folly-300x285.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"252\" height=\"239\" \/><\/a>You have been embedding negative and\/or positive self talk patterns into the deepest parts of your mind since early childhood.\u00a0 Those self-talk patterns have take hold and have deeply affected you, so much so that <em>you are what you say<\/em>!<\/p>\n<p>Because <em>you are what you say,<\/em> and because positive self talk has the power to increase self-confidence, reduce stress and make your life infinitely more enjoyable, sending ripples of happiness throughout your world, I encourage you to get hip to your self-talk.<strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Get Hip to Your Self Talk. \u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nIs your self-talk primarily positive, or negative?\u00a0 Are you sure?\u00a0 Here follow a few strategies that can help you become more aware of your inner dialogue.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Write It.<\/strong>\u00a0 At night and in the morning, jot dot a general summary of your thoughts.\u00a0 Today is; today will be; today was &#8230;\u00a0 Don&#8217;t judge it; just let it rip and then read it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Stop It.<\/strong>\u00a0 It&#8217;s as easy as that!\u00a0 When you hear yourself saying something negative &#8230; STOP yourself in your tracks by saying &#8220;Stop!&#8221;\u00a0 It&#8217;s more powerful to say it aloud.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Snap It.<\/strong>\u00a0 I&#8217;ve heard that some people wear a rubber band around their wrist, and when they hear themselves saying something negative, they snap it!\u00a0 I don&#8217;t know how I feel about that (ouch!), but if you are really deep into negativity, you might want to snap it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Neutralize It.<\/strong>\u00a0 When you catch yourself saying something negative, turn it around. Instead of &#8220;I can&#8217;t do it,&#8221; say &#8220;I don&#8217;t now how.&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Instead of &#8220;I&#8217;m in pain,&#8221; say, &#8220;I am experiencing discomfort.&#8221; Instead of &#8220;today was an awful day,&#8221; say, &#8220;today was trying and the best part of it was _____.&#8221;\u00a0 No matter how bad, there&#8217;s still a best.<\/p>\n<p>Positive self-talk has a positive effect on permanent fat removal!<\/p>\n<p><em>Spread the word \u2026 NOT the icing,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Janice (dictated by OLofWL; but not read <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/..\/wp-includes\/images\/smilies\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":)\" \/> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<br \/>\nFor the best in wellness and weight loss wisdom, visit Janice:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/\"><br \/>\nOur Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><br \/>\njoin the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\"><em>Kick in the Tush Club<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Become a Tushkateer!<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kickinthetushclub.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Tushkateer*<\/a><\/em><\/strong>\u00a0 A Tushkateer is a person who receives Our Lady of Weight Loss\u2019s newsletter, called the KICK in the TUSH CLUB!!!\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\" target=\"_blank\">Sign up and receive her weekly e-newsletter<\/a> with all the news that \u2018fit\u2019 to print, and you are automatically a Tushkateer!\u00a0 How cool is that? <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"..\/https:\/\/..\/wp-includes\/images\/smilies\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":)\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Follow Janice on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#%21\/ourlady\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter @OurLady<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ourladyofweightloss\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook.com\/OurLadyofWeightLoss<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\" target=\"_blank\">Need a Weight Loss Success Coach<\/a>?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You have been embedding negative and\/or positive self talk patterns into the deepest parts of your mind since early childhood.\u00a0 Those self-talk patterns have take hold and have deeply affected you, so much so that you are what you say! 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