{"id":2982,"date":"2011-11-15T08:42:51","date_gmt":"2011-11-15T13:42:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/?p=2982"},"modified":"2011-11-15T08:53:20","modified_gmt":"2011-11-15T13:53:20","slug":"kick-in-the-tush-tuesday-a-thousand-battles-angels-demons-heaven-hell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2011\/11\/kick-in-the-tush-tuesday-a-thousand-battles-angels-demons-heaven-hell.html","title":{"rendered":"Kick in the Tush Tuesday &#8211; A Thousand Battles: Angels, Demons, Heaven, Hell"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/files\/2011\/11\/Love-Thyself.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2983\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/2011\/11\/Love-Thyself-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"269\" height=\"403\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<em><strong>&#8220;It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. 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It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.&#8221; &#8211; Buddha<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Greetings Tushkateers!!!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I received an email early this morning giving me the head&#8217;s up that there are but a short 47 days till we ring in the New Year.\u00a0 Holy CowGirl Tushkateers, you could have knocked me over with a feather! 47 days &#8230; are they kidding me?\u00a0 How did that happen???\u00a0 Where did the year go?<\/p>\n<p>Once I got over the initial shock, I braced myself and read through the attached list of the 10 ten most commonly broken resolutions.\u00a0 Lose Weight &amp; Get Fit was at the top of the &#8216;leader board,&#8217; and Eat Healthier and Diet was number four.\u00a0 Imagine &#8230; diet\/weight loss is such a HUGE and HEAVY area that it took up two slots!\u00a0 (<a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/page.html?p=0000015Fu8vnxErDkr1gGDjuUupKCyPu6ft8\/pJKt6QHMv9YgMMg==&amp;email=janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">see side column in &#8216;fully loaded Kick&#8217; for the full list<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>As mind-spinning and unsettling as it was to think about resolutions, the year 2012, and what still has yet to get &#8216;done&#8217; in 2011 (like plan the Thanksgiving menu, shop for the holidays, etc. &#8211; I am so behind the 8-ball this year), the &#8216;happier,&#8217; less frazzled and more creative side of my mind took hold and started dictating a new resolution list for 2012.<\/p>\n<p>#1 on the list:\u00a0 <strong>LET GO of FEAR<\/strong> (the kind that stops you from achieving what you want to achieve; not the kind of fear that says &#8220;RUN,&#8221; there&#8217;s a mountain lion on your roof and it&#8217;s about to come through the skylight and eat you)!<\/p>\n<p>#2:\u00a0 <strong>SHELVE the WORRY<\/strong> (an off shoot of fear, but it speaks more specifically to the things that chip away at us vs. fear which shuts us down).<\/p>\n<p>#3.\u00a0 Tap into <strong>FULL on IMAGINATION<\/strong>!\u00a0 I know for sure that our imagination is our most under-utilized resource and the key to everything!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to start a new kind of resolution list.\u00a0 Are you in? The list has all to do with &#8216;internal&#8217; shifts &#8211; nothing to do what &#8216;doing&#8217; things.\u00a0 We&#8217;ve got 47 Days to RETHINK RESOLUTIONS and start 2012 in a new and brighter, more energized way!\u00a0\u00a0 WRITE ME!!!\u00a0 janice [at] ourladyofweightloss [dot] com<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">AND &#8230;<br \/>\n<em>Speaking of rethinking goals and resolutions, let&#8217;s read what M.J. from Missouri writes!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Dear OLofWL ~<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0 I wrote to you in August, asking you to help me lose 45 pounds by October, to which you replied something like &#8220;what??? 45 pounds in two months!&#8221;\u00a0 To begin with, you told me that on average people lose 1 pound a week.\u00a0 You &#8216;laid the truth&#8217; on me and honestly, at the time, it pissed-me off.\u00a0\u00a0 I thought &#8216;screw this,&#8217; I&#8217;m going to do one of those cleanses and get this weight off as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n<p>I managed to make my way through the first week of the cleanse and I dropped 10 pounds.\u00a0 Then, I moved to stage 2, a &#8216;crash&#8217; diet and by the end of week two, I had crashed.\u00a0 I was cranky, tired and miserable.\u00a0 I started eating again, and I gained those ten pounds back but fast.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when I hit bottom and realized that you were right.\u00a0 Weight loss is a process and it&#8217;s less about the food and more about my life.\u00a0 So, I&#8217;m writing you to tell you that you were right and maybe help someone who is about to torture themselves with fasting, cleansing and crash, fast, quick diets to rethink it.\u00a0 <em><strong>~ M.J. from Missouri<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Dear M.J. from Missouri,<\/strong><\/em> Congratulations, MJ!\u00a0 Your experience was an important part of your journey.\u00a0 You crashed, yes, but boy-O-boy, look at the learnings.\u00a0 It sounds to me like an internal shift took place, and you are now set to succeed.\u00a0\u00a0 Well done!\u00a0 And a mammoth thank you for letting us know.\u00a0 I&#8217;m betting that there are Tushkateers reading this who can relate.<\/p>\n<p>We are an awesome group.\u00a0 Moving forward together &#8230; one thought &amp; one ounce at a time. ~ <em><strong>OLofWL<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0 PS:\u00a0 I take no pleasure in being &#8216;right.&#8217;\u00a0 This isn&#8217;t about right or wrong.\u00a0 It&#8217;s about accepting what is.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Need a <a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/page.html?p=0000015Fu8vnxErDkr1gGDjuUupKCyPu6ft8\/pJKt6QHMv9YgMMg==&amp;email=janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">Fully Loaded KICK in the TUSH<\/a>?\u00a0 And be sure to<a href=\"http:\/\/maildogmanager.com\/surveys\/OurLadyofWeightLoss\/optin1.html\"> sign up for OLofWL&#8217;s newsletter<\/a>!\u00a0 Enjoy.<\/p>\n<p><em>Spread the word \u2026 NOT the icing,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Janice<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n<p>For the best in wellness and weight loss wisdom, visit Janice:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/\"><br \/>\nOur Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><br \/>\njoin the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.kickinthetushclub.com\/\"><em>Kick in the Tush Club<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Follow Janice on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#%21\/ourlady\">Twitter @OurLady<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ourladyofweightloss\">Facebook.com\/OurLadyofWeightLoss<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\">Looking for a Life &amp; Weight Loss Success Coach<\/a>?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. 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