{"id":285,"date":"2009-01-08T10:54:32","date_gmt":"2009-01-08T10:54:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/01\/be-the-smartest-smartass-ever.html"},"modified":"2009-01-08T10:54:32","modified_gmt":"2009-01-08T10:54:32","slug":"be-the-smartest-smartass-ever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/01\/be-the-smartest-smartass-ever.html","title":{"rendered":"Be the SMARTEST SMARTASS Ever!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>There are the SMARTEST Goals. And THEN &#8230;<br \/>\n&#8230; and only THEN<br \/>\n&#8230; there are SMART-ASS Goals. <\/strong><br \/>\nI thought that now might be a good time to revisit goal setting!  After all, it is a New Year, and while I don&#8217;t necessarily believe in resolutions, since we rarely stick to them, I do believe that the New Year presents an opportunity to reflect, to be contemplative and to set &#8220;Smartest Goals!&#8221;<br \/>\nWhen I first started my journey on the rocky road to Sveltesville with Our Lady of Weight Loss at my side, I did not know how many pounds I wanted to permanently remove.  Nope, no number in mind.<br \/>\nI figured I&#8217;d take it one day at a time, one pound at a time! And that ranks up there as being one of the SMARTEST things I&#8217;ve ever done.   If I had thought &#8220;I must lose 50 pounds,&#8221; I probably would have felt completely overwhelmed and consoled myself with a trip to the bakery!<br \/>\nHere follows my guidelines for SMARTEST goals. The perfect yardstick, so to speak, to know if you need to tweak your goal or not.  Remember, we are picking small goals &#8230; taking it one day at a time &#8230; one pound at a time.<br \/>\nS &#8211; Goals must be SPECIFIC and the more specific the better. State your goal in as exact of terms as possible.<br \/>\nM &#8211; Your goal should be MEASURABLE. Think about what will be the measurement of your goal. (It&#8217;s not always about pounds lost. Could be to stay away from candy bars today!)<br \/>\nA &#8211; Goals should have ACCOUNTABILITY. Who or what are you accountable to for your goal? Our Lady of Weight Loss, of course!<br \/>\nR &#8211; Goals must be REALISTIC. Unrealistic goals will lead you off the path of health and happiness and straight into destruction valley! Yikes.<br \/>\nT &#8211; Targets should be TIME based. What&#8217;s your time-table for completion, and stick to it. FYI, when it comes to Permanent Fat Removal, I generally advise that one&#8217;s goal be: I will eat healthfully and stay on plan for (period of time). This way, I&#8217;m not driven mad by the scale, knowing that if I am eating healthfully and on plan, the pounds will have to move out.<br \/>\nE &#8211; Goals should be EXCITING! Woo hoo EXCITING and you will meet them faster. So now add on a reward or an event or something that links your goal to excitement. Or just imagine what&#8217;s at the other side of the rainbow. Wow, that IS exciting.<br \/>\nS &#8211;  If you STRETCH yourself ever-so-slightly, outside your comfort range, your brain will manufacture dopamine &#8211; a happy drug.<br \/>\nT&#8211;Does your goal speak to your TRUTH?  Is it in alignment with your bigger picture?<br \/>\nOh, now for SMART-ASS goals!<br \/>\nI was telling my husband about my SMARTEST Goals.<br \/>\nAnd he said,  &#8220;How about Smart-ass goals. If you are the SMARTEST, then you can be a SMART-ASS.&#8221;<br \/>\nI said, &#8220;Be serious.&#8221; To which he responded, &#8220;I am serious.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Then what does the A-S-S stand for?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;AUTHENTIC * SASSY * SATISFIED (and Satisfying!)&#8221;<br \/>\nSo &#8211; if you want to be a SMART-ASS, be the SMARTEST!<br \/>\n<em>Spread the word &#8230; NOT the icing!<br \/>\nJanice<\/em><br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\">Janice Taylor is a Life &amp; Wellness Coach<\/a>, author, seminar leader and 50-pound-BIG-Time-LOSER!  <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">Write Janice<\/a> for an Introductory Coaching Session.<br \/>\nFor more motivation and inspiration, join the <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kickinthetushclub\">Kick in the Tush Club: Beliefnet Chapter.  <\/a><br \/>\nPick up a copy of Janice&#8217;s latest: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/All-Forgiven-Move-Fat-Burning-Sveltesville\/dp\/014200524X\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1197052667&amp;sr=1-1\">All Is Forgiven, Move ON ~ Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s 101 Fat-Burning Steps on Your Journey to Sveltesville<\/a>!<br \/>\n<em>&#8221; . . . . kooky genius ~ see if her idiosyncratic diet plan will work for you.&#8221; ~ O, The Oprah Magazine<\/em><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ART heart.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/ART%20heart.jpg\" width=\"34\" height=\"34\" class=\"mt-image-left\" \/><\/span> <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"> about Janice<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are the SMARTEST Goals. 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