{"id":215,"date":"2009-03-19T14:15:09","date_gmt":"2009-03-19T14:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/03\/food-demons-and-voices-of-doub.html"},"modified":"2009-03-19T14:15:09","modified_gmt":"2009-03-19T14:15:09","slug":"food-demons-and-voices-of-doub","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2009\/03\/food-demons-and-voices-of-doub.html","title":{"rendered":"What YOU Say: Food Demons and Voices of Doubt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kickinthetushclub\">Kick in the Tush Club<\/a> member writes about the her Food Demons and Alien Voices.<br \/>\n<em>Dear Janice ~ <\/em>  I was reading your book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/014200524X\/beliefnet\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a>, and when got to the evil twin chapter, I really paused right there to meet that voice (I might say I was given an opportunity to see &#8211; because I do think this was a gift from God) and it wasn&#8217;t pretty!  In fact in my mind&#8217;s eye, I caught the literal red eyes of my &#8216;evil twin.&#8217;  This may sound creepy in a way, but this story will conclude with how this relates to my theology\/belief system as well.<br \/>\nAnyway, at that moment &#8211; I took my journal and wrote down all the things my &#8216;evil twin&#8217; and\/or the Alien voice tells me (this list is on-going) &#8211; and so this is my list (thus far):<br \/>\n<big><em><strong>Things my &#8220;Evil Twin&#8221; says to me<\/strong><\/em><\/big>:<\/p>\n<li>&#8220;You will never reach your goal.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;You are proving to the world you can be a happy, successful &#8216;heavy person&#8217;.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;You speak to me with a &#8216;shades of doubt&#8217; and deceptive vocabulary with words like &#8220;hopefully&#8221;, &#8220;I think I now get it&#8221;, &#8220;God willing&#8221; &#8211; you always leave an escape route so that I am not really held accountable.\n<li>&#8220;At least you are holding your weight (for 5 years) and have not gained back the 25 pounds.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;Maybe you can&#8217;t lose any more than this &#8211; perhaps you are just stabilized here.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;You&#8217;re on vacation &#8211; there&#8217;s always tomorrow.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;Well, at least you are trying.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;Well, at least you keep trying.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;You only lost 0.8 lbs this week, and that was with a perfect journaling week&#8221;&#8221; (implying what hope is there?).\n<li>&#8220;You might as well give up.&#8221; &#8211; this one followed the above one of course.\n<li>&#8220;You&#8217;re never going to be thin, never have &#8211; never will.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;People like me are never thin.&#8221;\n<li>&#8220;You don&#8217;t know how to be thin.&#8221;\n<\/ol>\n<p>Anyway, my revelation was as follows just a few days after making this list.<br \/>\n<strong>The Origins of the Evil Voice <\/strong>&#8211; My Truth: <strong>Adam &amp; Eve&#8217;s sin in Genesis was a &#8216;fall for all persons&#8217;<\/strong> &#8211; and at the point of that fatal temptation &#8211; Satan was externally spewing words of doubt , like &#8220;surely God can&#8217;t really mean this&#8221; in Eve&#8217;s ear &#8211; words she&#8217;d never heard before&#8230;temptation (and with fruit no less! ! !phith).<br \/>\nAt that very point of the &#8216;fall&#8217; &#8211; at the point of the bite (again, funny it happened through eating-yes?) &#8211; at that cosmic moment, the external voice became our internal voice (forever and in all of us until Christ comes again), our evil twin inside was born.  Now that I see and I know the voice, I can really hear the lies in it &#8211; I know now as I have never quite before.<br \/>\nFor the first time in my life I really did catch<strong> the spiritual nature of the trip to Sveltesville.<\/strong>  Now I listen far more closely for what that &#8216;voice of doubt&#8217; tells me, and I treat it way more seriously.<br \/>\nSuffice it to say, thank you again for your part in it!  <em><strong>Kathleen A.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\nDear Kathleen ~ Thank you so much for your thoughts and insights on your inner Alien a.k.a. Evil Twin.  I am sure your words hit a chord with many.  We have all heard that voice &#8211; to one degree or another &#8211; in one form or another.<br \/>\nWeight Loss is a spiritual journey, most definitely!  And I am honored to be a witness to your success.  Keep up the great work!<br \/>\nSpread the spiritual word &#8230; NOT the icing!<br \/>\nJanice<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\">Janice Taylor is a Life &amp; Wellness Coach, specializing in weight loss, reinvention, transformation &amp; happiness<\/a>, author, seminar leader and 50-pound-BIG-Time-LOSER!  <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">Write Janice<\/a> for an Introductory Coaching Session.<br \/>\nFor more motivation and inspiration, join the <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kickinthetushclub\">Kick in the Tush Club: Beliefnet Chapter.  <\/a><br \/>\nPick up a copy of Janice&#8217;s latest: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/All-Forgiven-Move-Fat-Burning-Sveltesville\/dp\/014200524X\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1197052667&amp;sr=1-1\">All Is Forgiven, Move ON ~ Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s 101 Fat-Burning Steps on Your Journey to Sveltesville<\/a>!<br \/>\n<em>&#8220;Janice Taylor is a certain kind of kooky genius ~ see if her idiosyncratic diet plan will work for you.&#8221; ~ O, The Oprah Magazine<\/em><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ART heart.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/ART%20heart.jpg\" width=\"34\" height=\"34\" class=\"mt-image-left\" \/><\/span> <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"> about Janice<\/a><br \/>\nFollow Janice on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/OurLady\">Twitter<\/a>:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/home.php#\/profile.php?sid=d82081eb96fa8033ec096ad6ccfd2b0a&amp;id=557881698&amp;hiq=janice%2Ctaylor\">Facebook<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Kick in the Tush Club member writes about the her Food Demons and Alien Voices. 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