{"id":155,"date":"2008-07-26T07:31:32","date_gmt":"2008-07-26T07:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/07\/ideal-beauty-bold-brave-and-in.html"},"modified":"2014-06-23T09:20:45","modified_gmt":"2014-06-23T13:20:45","slug":"ideal-beauty-bold-brave-and-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/07\/ideal-beauty-bold-brave-and-in.html","title":{"rendered":"Ideal Beauty: Bold n&#8217; Brave In Your Underwear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><big>A Perfectly Beautiful Conversation<\/big><\/strong> with <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\">Janice Taylor,<\/a> Life &amp; Wellness Coach, 50-pound big-time-loser, and <a href=\"http:\/\/inplainsight.ca\/\">Natalie Fournier<\/a>, photographer and performance artist.<br \/>\n<em>Janice:<\/em> <strong>You are bold and brave, in your underwear<\/strong> &#8230; and clearly making a statement about your body, the collective body and how we see beauty, and about your relationship with Minnie Mouse &#8230; please, tell us!<br \/>\n<em>Natalie:<\/em> It started early on &#8230; Like most little girls, the fantastical world of Walt Disney, with its princesses and fairies, inserted itself in my mind. Those Barbie-like princesses became my ideal of beauty, with their small waist, their perfect legs and long silky hair. As I became older, actresses in movies and models in magazines replaced those princesses.<br \/>\n<em>Janice: <\/em> I know what you mean. I was taken with Snow White and now Catherine Zeta-Jones, who could play Snow White! I know it played with my mind, making me feel less than &#8230; longing to be that form of beautiful.<br \/>\n<em>Natalie:<\/em> Exactly. This picture of what &#8220;perfect beauty&#8221; looked like contaminated my mind, as well, and played with my self-esteem. After putting myself down over and over again, it became pretty clear to me that I would never be able to attain that ideal (or myth) of beauty. I realized that trying to be something that I&#8217;m not is just simply ridiculous.<br \/>\n<em>Janice: <\/em> It is ridiculous! Did you know that twenty years ago, models weighed 8% less than the average woman. And today they weigh 23% less. It&#8217;s a total myth! Airbrushed photos, you know. Nobody is that perfect, especially in the morning. And now &#8230; how do you feel about your &#8216;real&#8217; body?<br \/>\n<em>Natalie: <\/em>Over these last couple years I have learned to love my body, and its every curve!<br \/>\n<em>Janice:<\/em> Your work speaks so beautifully to this love and acceptance of self. I admire your &#8216;performance.&#8217; Your form of expression.<br \/>\n<em>Natalie:<\/em> Through my art, I try to expose the absurdity of trying to look like something else than yourself, of the ridiculousness of wanting to fit in a mould of what is<br \/>\n&#8220;desirable&#8221; or &#8220;beautiful.&#8221;<br \/>\n<em>Janice:<\/em> No point in trying to be someone else &#8230; as <em>Cornell Wilde says, &#8220;Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.&#8221; <\/em><br \/>\n<em>Natalie:<\/em> Great quote!<br \/>\n<em>Janice:<\/em> And finally, your reference to Minnie?<br \/>\n<em>Natalie:<\/em> Even if Minnie Mouse and her friends don&#8217;t think I fit in with them, in my eyes, I am beautiful and that&#8217;s that!<br \/>\n<em>Janice:<\/em> You are beautiful! And that is that! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your art!<br \/>\nFor more Natalie go to <a href=\"http:\/\/inplainsight.ca\/\">Inplainsight.ca<\/a>!<br \/>\n<em>Spread the word, NOT the iciing!<br \/>\nJanice<\/em><br \/>\nImage from the &#8220;Desire&#8221; series &#8220;Minnie Mouse&#8221;, inkjet print, 34&#8243; x 42&#8243;, 2007, by Natalie Fournier, Photograph, Performance Artist, currently residing in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. <a href=\"http:\/\/inplainsight.ca\">ipsgallery<\/a><br \/>\nFor more motivation and inspiration, join the <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kickinthetushclub\">Kick in the Tush Club: Beliefnet Chapter. <\/a><br \/>\nPick up a copy of Janice&#8217;s latest: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/All-Forgiven-Move-Fat-Burning-Sveltesville\/dp\/014200524X\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1197052667&amp;sr=1-1\">All Is Forgiven, Move ON ~ Our Lady of Weight Loss&#8217;s 101 Fat-Burning Steps on Your Journey to Sveltesville<\/a>!<br \/>\n<em>&#8221; . . . . kooky genius ~ see if her idiosyncratic diet plan will work for you.&#8221; ~ O, The Oprah Magazine<\/em><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mt-image-left\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/ART%20heart.jpg\" alt=\"ART heart.jpg\" width=\"34\" height=\"34\" \/><\/span> <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\/motivation\/coach.asp\"> about Janice<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Perfectly Beautiful Conversation with Janice Taylor, Life &amp; Wellness Coach, 50-pound big-time-loser, and Natalie Fournier, photographer and performance artist. 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