{"id":140,"date":"2008-07-08T02:26:50","date_gmt":"2008-07-08T02:26:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/07\/criticism-bites-say-something.html"},"modified":"2008-07-08T02:26:50","modified_gmt":"2008-07-08T02:26:50","slug":"criticism-bites-say-something","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/07\/criticism-bites-say-something.html","title":{"rendered":"Criticism Bites"},"content":{"rendered":"

Power of the Compliment<\/strong><\/em> by Janice Taylor,<\/a> Beliefnet Blogger
\nMost everyone appreciates a complimen<\/em><\/strong>t, a word of encouragement, and a bit of recognition. I know, I do! Someone said something nice to me today and it made all the difference. (Thank you kind stranger!<\/em>) Positive and encouraging comments build confidence and self-esteem.
\nSo, hey, why not?<\/strong><\/em> Say something nice to someone! It ain’t gonna’ cost you nothin’, and it’s relatively easy. And – extra bonus – as you look for the good in others, they will find the good in you.
\n<\/p>\n

“You will find what you look for: good or evil, problems or solutions.” ~ John Marks Templeton<\/div>\n

<\/em>
\nCompliments are little offerings of unexpected, no-strings-attached love.<\/em><\/strong> They are not asked for; they are not required. They simply let a person know that you recognize their positive light and that they are worthy of notice. If delivered well, a compliment can change the air from static to calm; from negative to positive.
\nCompliments send out a ripple of kindness.<\/strong><\/em> Not only does the recipient of the compliment feel good, so does the giver. Moods are boosted; positivity amplified.
\nCompliments land successfully only when sincere<\/em><\/strong>; when a true reflection of what we are thinking. Faux, syrupy, artificially sweetened compliments will backfire and the deliverer of said fake compliments will appear insincere and untrustworthy.
\nBe An Angel: Pile on the Praise<\/strong><\/big>
\nThe best way to spread the complimentary word (NOT the icing) is to take a moment to notice what’s right and good in a person; something that you genuinely admire, and then find a way to let them know.
\nHere are some positive character traits<\/em><\/strong> that you might be on the look out for.
\nKind – Fair – Helpful – Honest – Reliable – Friendly – Brave – Caring – Smart – Funny – Generous – Open minded – Loving – Warm – Positive – Peaceful – Creative – Witty – Cheerful – Flexible – Beautiful – Handsome – Sexy – Good Listener – Joy – Unique – Funny
\nAnd now practice giving compliments.<\/strong><\/em>
\nYou are … fun.
\nYou are … unique.
\nYou are … loving.
\nI appreciate your ability to listen.
\nI appreciate your kindness.
\nYou do ‘that’ so well.
\nYou bring out the best in me.
\nYou make me want to be a better person.
\nAnd when someone gives you a compliment<\/em><\/strong>, simply smile and say, “Thank you.”
\nAnd now … go ahead, leave a complimentary comment (about anyone!)<\/em>
\nSpread the complimentary word (NOT the icing!),
\nJanice<\/em><\/strong>
\nWant more health and happiness? Join the Kick in the Tush Club<\/strong><\/a>.
\nAnd pick up a copy of All Is Forgiven, Move On<\/a><\/strong>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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