{"id":135,"date":"2008-07-03T06:42:00","date_gmt":"2008-07-03T06:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/07\/create-entry-our-lady-of-weigh.html"},"modified":"2008-07-03T06:42:00","modified_gmt":"2008-07-03T06:42:00","slug":"create-entry-our-lady-of-weigh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/07\/create-entry-our-lady-of-weigh.html","title":{"rendered":"Willpower vs. Want-Power"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ART want power.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/ART%20want%20power.jpg\" width=\"253\" height=\"286\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span><big><strong>There is no such thing as willpower<\/strong><\/big>.  If the cake calls your name, who amongst us has the  willpower to just say, &#8220;no!?&#8221;  We are more than likely than not to cave in and eat it!  Want Power means that we want to lose weight enough to make sure that there&#8217;s no cake in the house &#8211; that we want to be thin enough to go that extra mile &#8211; to do what it takes!<br \/>\n<strong><big>Build Your Want Power Muscle<\/big> from <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\">Beliefnet Blogger<\/a>, Janice Taylor.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Do you know what you want?<\/strong><br \/>\nSometimes it is easier to know what we DON&#8217;T want rather than what we DO want.   In order for you to build your want power muscle so that your want power is stronger than Popeye after a can of spinach, try this:<br \/>\nBefore every shopping expedition, television show, meeting, phone call to family member; in other words, before every event or decision, ask yourself &#8220;What do I want?&#8221;<br \/>\n<strong>&#8220;What do I want?&#8221;<\/strong>  Would you prefer to buy a black dress or a brown dress?  Did you want to make low-fat pizza for dinner tonight or a mammoth chicken salad?  Did you want to watch &#8220;Weeds&#8221; or &#8220;Big Love?&#8221;  From the most mundane to the most serious of decisions, just pause and ask, &#8220;What do I want?&#8221;<br \/>\n<strong>Low-Wattage Light-Bulb Moments<\/strong><br \/>\nI found this exercise extremely helpful.  Almost every pause set off a low-wattage light-bulb moment.  It became clear that I often went to movies that I did not want to go to in order to appease people who I really didn&#8217;t want to appease. I ate at restaurants and ordered food that I really did not want, because I did not want to annoy anyone. I stayed places way longer than necessary.  Connecting to these<em> &#8216;a-ha want&#8217;<\/em> moments shed some light on my under-developed want muscle.<br \/>\nAs these little wants connected to bigger wants, my want muscle grew stronger.  I was able to get in touch with my gut feelings &#8211; my emotional state as well as the physical sensations that connected to really wanting something. My decision making process became a lot more fluid and stronger, and I began to clearly see what I wanted <em>(vs. what I did not want).<\/em><br \/>\n<big><strong> What do you want? <\/strong><\/big><br \/>\n<strong>New Point of View:<\/strong> <em> There is no such thing as willpower only want power!<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Spread the word, not the icing!<br \/>\nJanice<\/em><br \/>\nFor second helpings of want power, join Our Lady&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/kickinthetushclub\"><strong>Kick in the Tush Club community<\/strong><\/a>.<br \/>\nAnd pick up a copy of <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/All-Forgiven-Move-Fat-Burning-Sveltesville\/dp\/014200524X\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1197052667&amp;sr=1-1\">All Is Forgiven, Move On<\/a><\/strong> (builds want power muscles 101 ways)!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is no such thing as willpower. 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