{"id":10,"date":"2008-02-11T07:06:54","date_gmt":"2008-02-11T07:06:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/02\/thigh-to-thigh-love.html"},"modified":"2008-02-11T07:06:54","modified_gmt":"2008-02-11T07:06:54","slug":"thigh-to-thigh-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ourladyofweightloss\/2008\/02\/thigh-to-thigh-love.html","title":{"rendered":"Thigh to Thigh Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ART%20Valentine.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/100\/import\/ART%20Valentine.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"429\" \/><br \/>\n<strong>Self-love and weight loss go hand-in-hand and thigh-to-thigh, if you will. <\/strong><br \/>\nI know how it feels not to like myself and to lead a life of compromise. It\u2019s a big, fat drag.  And now I know how it feels to like \u2013 even love myself.  I promise you, it\u2019s a whole lot better and there\u2019s no pastry, chocolate bar, or basket of bread that\u2019s worth it putting self-love on the back-burner.<br \/>\nLove is an art that requires conviction, faith and daily practice. Self-love is within you, always available \u2013 ready to comfort and embrace.<br \/>\nFully accept yourself this St. Valentine\u2019s Day.  You deserve to love yourself, no matter your size, hairstyle (I had the ultimate bad cut a few weeks ago and struggled with self-love.),or  I.Q. (my brother was the smart one!).<br \/>\n<em>Six Sensational and Sassy Tips on How to Exercise Your Self-Love Muscle<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n1. Write out a list of all the things you like about yourself.  If you are short on ideas, ask a couple of good and kind friends.  (<em>Caution: steer clear of critical relatives.)<\/em><br \/>\n2. To get your day headed in the right direction, start the morning with a few self-loving affirmations.  Write them first and then say them aloud.  \u201cMy loving energy flows through me and out into the universe, connecting with all the Gods and Goddesses of love.\u201d <em>(Okay, a little over the top. I like a touch of drama.) <\/em><br \/>\n3. Every night jot down three things that you are grateful for. \u201cI am grateful that I love myself.\u201d<br \/>\n4. Praise and compliment yourself as often as possible. Criticism is soul crushing. Praise builds.  \u201cWow, that chocolate smoothie I just whipped up was awesome&#8221;.  &#8220;I am great.\u201d \u201cAnd woo hoo! Girlfriend, look at yourself in those tight-ass jeans.\u201d<br \/>\n5. Look adoringly at yourself in the mirror.  Accept yourself just the way you are.   No kidding, you are really fabulous. No need to wait. Love yourself NOW.<br \/>\n6.  Shop for thyself.  Here are a few links to some fun gifts for self.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.emilystrange.com\/beware\/buyordie.cfm?i=5878\">Skull Love Earrings<\/a> &#8211; $7.00<br \/>\nFab earrings from Emily the Strange.  Check out the rest of her skull heart jewerly.  Necklaces, key chains, the works!  Ranging from $13 to $7 &#8230;<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thetissuestore.com\/Store_ViewProdDetail.asp?ProdID=7250&amp;Cat=262\">Glamour Black Tissues<\/a> &#8211; $1.50<br \/>\nBlow your nose in glamorous love style! Cheap thrill for only $1.50 a pack<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.redenvelope.com\/re\/gifts\/product_display\/product_information.jsp?nc=99379&amp;refPg=endeca_srch&amp;N=0&amp;Nr=searchable%3A0&amp;Ntk=search&amp;Ntt=candle&amp;Ntx=mode%2Bmatchallpartial&amp;initSrch=search&amp;oid=26415383&amp;nc2=1\">Votive Candles Beautifully Box<\/a> &#8211; $45.00<br \/>\nOn the high end, Red Envelope has put together a gorgeous box of votives.  Check them out!  Nice to take into the bath with you!  Light &#8217;em up, slip into the hot bath and let the tensions of the day go&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<br \/>\n<em>New Point of View<\/em>: <strong> I&#8217;m worth it. <\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>How do you love thyself<\/strong>?  <a href=\"mailto:janice@ourladyofweightloss.com\">Write me<\/a><br \/>\nDeliciously yours,<br \/>\nJanice<br \/>\nVisit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ourladyofweightloss.com\">Our Lady of Weight Loss<\/a><br \/>\nfor a full KICK in the TUSH <a href=\"http:\/\/www.maildogmanager.com\/page.html?p=000001XDDtjF7iBrcZeW87y60pstzqlsTxsXhyGSSd85l2HO4XHA==\">(read Our Lady&#8217;s Monday&#8217;s e-letter<\/a>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-love and weight loss go hand-in-hand and thigh-to-thigh, if you will. I know how it feels not to like myself and to lead a life of compromise. It\u2019s a big, fat drag. And now I know how it feels to like \u2013 even love myself. 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