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Growing up I had a minor role in my parents\u2019 story:<\/p>\n

Move from the farm into town and work day and night plus pinch every penny to save enough money to buy a house.<\/em><\/p>\n

Later I teamed up with my husband to further his story:<\/p>\n

Minister\u2019s son also enters the pastorate to bring a more modern approach to building lives and churches<\/em>.<\/p>\n

I was producer and director of what I hoped would be my children\u2019s stories:<\/p>\n

Child who is loved and encouraged to develop becomes good person and successful member of society.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>A computer company hired me and I joined their story:<\/p>\n

Develop hardware and software tools to release humans from drudgery and free them to be more creative.<\/em><\/p>\n

My story was their stories.<\/p>\n

Until everything crashed. A move ended the job. Husband walked out. Teenaged children left home.<\/p>\n

For the first time I knew pain, suffering, and bewilderment. Interestingly, bereft of others\u2019 stories, I found mine:<\/p>\n

Woman falls off tall white horse and hits the ground hard. Over time, she heals and takes her place in the real world. Although her gift is small, she has the gift of helping people see their unique talent. She seeks out people in pain\u2014excluded, stuck, certain life has passed them by or beset with loss\u2014to whom she may give her gift. <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0What is your story?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I offer three steps to help you find your story–one worth living:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a01. See pain and suffering as a normal part of being human. Although here in the West we do our best to avoid pain, other parts of the world know suffering as reality.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a02.\u00a0 Enter the battle to alleviate it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a03. Be you and give what you have to give.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Dear Reader: this is a new Beliefnet blog. I need your help to make it a success. Would you subscribe (see bar above on the right) plus share this post with a friend who may enjoy it? Also, I appreciate your comments.\u00a0 Thank you, Gloria <\/em><\/p>\n

Gloria@gloriarose.com<\/a><\/em><\/em><\/p>\n

@gloriabethrose<\/em><\/p>\n

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