{"id":880,"date":"2009-10-21T11:26:39","date_gmt":"2009-10-21T11:26:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/onecity\/2009\/10\/twitteleh-balloon-boy-and-reality-television.html"},"modified":"2009-10-21T11:26:39","modified_gmt":"2009-10-21T11:26:39","slug":"twitteleh-balloon-boy-and-reality-television","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/onecity\/2009\/10\/twitteleh-balloon-boy-and-reality-television.html","title":{"rendered":"Twitteleh, Balloon Boy, and Reality Television"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><meta http-equiv=\"Content-Type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta name=\"ProgId\" content=\"Word.Document\"><meta name=\"Generator\" content=\"Microsoft Word 12\"><meta name=\"Originator\" content=\"Microsoft Word 12\"><link rel=\"File-List\" href=\"file:\/\/\/C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5Cclean%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml\"><link rel=\"themeData\" href=\"file:\/\/\/C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5Cclean%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx\"><link rel=\"colorSchemeMapping\" href=\"file:\/\/\/C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5Cclean%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml\"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument>  <w:View>Normal<\/w:View>  <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom>  <w:TrackMoves\/>  <w:TrackFormatting\/>  <w:PunctuationKerning\/>  <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas\/>  <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false<\/w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>  <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false<\/w:IgnoreMixedContent>  <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false<\/w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>  <w:DoNotPromoteQF\/>  <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US<\/w:LidThemeOther>  <w:LidThemeAsian>X-NONE<\/w:LidThemeAsian>  <w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE<\/w:LidThemeComplexScript>  <w:Compatibility>   <w:BreakWrappedTables\/>   <w:SnapToGridInCell\/>   <w:WrapTextWithPunct\/>   <w:UseAsianBreakRules\/>   <w:DontGrowAutofit\/>   <w:SplitPgBreakAndParaMark\/>   <w:DontVertAlignCellWithSp\/>   <w:DontBreakConstrainedForcedTables\/>   <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx\/>   <w:Word11KerningPairs\/>   <w:CachedColBalance\/>  <\/w:Compatibility>  <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4<\/w:BrowserLevel>  <m:mathPr>   <m:mathFont m:val=\"Cambria Math\"\/>   <m:brkBin m:val=\"before\"\/>   <m:brkBinSub m:val=\"--><m:smallfrac m:val=\"off\"><m:dispdef><m:lmargin m:val=\"0\"><m:rmargin m:val=\"0\"><i>by Jerry Kolber. Jerry is a media obsessed Buddhist televison producer in New York City. follow him at <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/JerryKolber\">twitter.com\/JerryKolber <\/a>&#8211; or on Twittele<\/i>h.<\/p>\n<p><\/m:rmargin><\/m:lmargin><\/m:dispdef><\/m:smallfrac><\/p>\n<form mt:asset-id=\"8729\" class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\" style=\"display: inline;\" contenteditable=\"false\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"balloonboy.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/balloonboy.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt; float: left;\" width=\"370\" height=\"278\" \/><\/form>\n<p><m:smallfrac m:val=\"off\"><m:dispdef><m:lmargin m:val=\"0\"><m:rmargin m:val=\"0\"><m:defjc m:val=\"centerGroup\"><m:wrapindent m:val=\"1440\"><m:intlim m:val=\"subSup\"><m:narylim m:val=\"undOvr\"><\/m:narylim><\/m:intlim><\/m:wrapindent><!--[endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState=\"false\" DefUnhideWhenUsed=\"true\"  DefSemiHidden=\"true\" DefQFormat=\"false\" 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When I heard about <a href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/GMA\/AheadoftheCurve\/balloon-boy-family-expects-charges-sheriffs-hoax-claim\/story?id=8859638\">balloon boy<\/a> flying away in a flyingsaucer last week, I was on a conference call with Farnoosh Torabi, the lovely host ofmy new show Bank of Mom And Dad.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>Sheasked me if I was following the balloon boy story- I was not, as I was deep inproduction stuff all day and had not checked the news.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>We talked about it for a moment, and howscary it was.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>Because the family hadbeen on Wife Swap, we wondered briefly if balloon boy was real or a cruel hoax, but the conversation wasreally about how scary it was and how dangerous it was that the parents hadallowed this to happen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><o:p>&nbsp;<\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">As it became apparent that the story was a hoax, and onethat the parents had involved their children in, it brought up an interestingconversation, since this family had been on Wife Swap and was obviously missinghaving camera crews around.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>As a realitytelevision producer I have tried to be careful throughout my career to only work on shows that are either transformational, or reveal an aspect of the worldthat the average viewer hasn&#8217;t seen but without being lurid.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>With a few exceptions, I&#8217;ve been both luckyenough and careful enough to work on shows that mesh with my own personalvalues.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p><\/m:defjc>(More, and TWITTELEH&#8230;after the fold&#8230;)<br \/><\/m:rmargin><\/m:lmargin><\/m:dispdef><\/m:smallfrac><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">But working in reality television, no matter how careful youare, presents unique challenges to anyone with a clear sense of truth, and it&#8217;sbecome 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But ratherthan making it impossible for me to continue to do my job, my growingunderstanding of mindfulness and Buddhist techniques has made me better at whatI do.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>Particularly in situations likeBank of Mom and Dad &#8211; where I also have a great team of people who are alsocommitted to both telling great stories and telling them honestly &#8211; we have hadto be mindful that we are exposing the daughters who star in the show to deepissues around money and parents, two hot buttons for anyone in theirtwenties.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">While there has been much organic drama &#8211; and of course somenudging to help people move through some of their &#8220;stuff&#8221; &#8211; we&#8217;ve been able tomake a compelling show without employing any of the easily accessible tacticsthat get pulled too often on reality sets.<span style=\"\">&nbsp;<\/span>We&#8217;re telling the stories honestly, and whenever I have felt we areentering territory where I felt we were making a cast member &#8220;do something&#8221;rather than have an authentic experience, we&#8217;ve been able to stop, re-adjustand carry on mindfully. As a result, the experience is not only trulytransformational for the people on the show, it&#8217;s a more authentic experiencefor the people watching it, and a more personally gratifying and respectfulexperience for the people making it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">My Buddhist practice has been hugely influential in how I amable to conduct myself on this show.<span style=\"\">&nbsp; <\/span>Onequestion I ask myself each morning is &#8220;how can I be of service to the show, thepeople on it, and the people I work with?&#8221;&nbsp; I think I would ask myself this no matter what job I had.&nbsp; While every single moment may notmeet that lofty goal (some days are way better than others), enough of them dothat I feel encouraged by the work I am doing; and I&#8217;m noticing enough of themoments that I&#8217;m not in the &#8220;service zone&#8221; that I feel my practice is slowlymoving off the cushion and into a challenging work environment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><o:p>&nbsp;<br \/>And now for Twitteleh &#8211; I got this by email this morning and it&#8217;s the best parody of Twitter I&#8217;ve seen yet. 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