{"id":784,"date":"2009-09-03T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-09-03T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/onecity\/2009\/09\/zen-and-the-art-of-the-scam.html"},"modified":"2009-09-03T08:00:00","modified_gmt":"2009-09-03T08:00:00","slug":"zen-and-the-art-of-the-scam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/onecity\/2009\/09\/zen-and-the-art-of-the-scam.html","title":{"rendered":"Zen and the Art of the Scam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday, I fell victim to one of the oldest scams in<br \/>\nthe book.&nbsp; A young man came to my door<br \/>\nworking on a &#8220;contest&#8221; and looking for my help.&nbsp;<br \/>\nHe said that in order for him to gain points to win the competition for a<br \/>\n$5000 scholarship, all I had to do was order a magazine subscription<span><\/span> that would<br \/>\nbe donated to the active military armed forces branch of my choice.&nbsp; I must have talked to him on the doorstop for<br \/>\nover 20 minutes before I decided, &#8220;hey, this is just a donation for the<br \/>\ntroops, I&#8217;ll go ahead and help him out.&#8221;&nbsp;<br \/>\nI wrote out a check for $60 and he went on his<br \/>\nway.&nbsp; When I got inside I looked up the<br \/>\ncompany on the receipt (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ripoffreport.com\/Sales-People\/Editor-Chief-Review\/editor-chief-review-inc-th-9b86z.htm\">Editor and Chief Review Inc.<\/a>)<br \/>\nand instantly found out that this was a scam.&nbsp; A string of thoughts<br \/>\nflashed in my mind<br \/>\nalmost at once, &#8220;how&#8217;d I get hoodwinked so easily?&#8221; &#8220;why didn&#8217;t I look<br \/>\nthis up before I wrote the check?&#8221; &#8220;can I stop him?&#8221;&nbsp;<br \/>\nI immediately called my bank and set to work trying to make this<br \/>\nsituation right and minimize its financial impact.&nbsp; What I didn&#8217;t<br \/>\nrealize was what this scam would teach me about myself and the<br \/>\npractice.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nOnce the initial shock of what happened began to<br \/>\nfade I was<br \/>\nleft with a terrible feeling that he&#8217;d gotten me because of my Buddhist<br \/>\npractice.&nbsp; I remember being approached by<br \/>\nthese types before I learned anything about Buddhism and I never gave<br \/>\nthem the<br \/>\ntime of day, let alone a check.&nbsp; At this<br \/>\npoint in my life, I consider generosity to be a major part of my<br \/>\npractice.&nbsp; I have a good job, I bring down a decent<br \/>\nsalary and I feel that it&#8217;s part of my practice as a Buddhist to volunteer and give<br \/>\nto<br \/>\ncharity when I can.&nbsp; What snagged me in<br \/>\nthis situation was the fact that he made clear that this would be<br \/>\npurely a<br \/>\ndonation that would also help him with his scholarship competition.&nbsp; I<br \/>\nwasn&#8217;t buying a magazine subscription and<br \/>\nthe money would go to a good cause.&nbsp; Of<br \/>\ncourse, being scammed had nothing to do with my Buddhist practice.&nbsp;<br \/>\nI understood that these people prey on the<br \/>\nnatural generosity of all good, kind-hearted folks out there, but that<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t<br \/>\nmake me feel any better about falling into his trap.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I went to bed Saturday night with a gnawing feeling<br \/>\nthat I&#8217;d made a huge mistake and I would surely regret it for a long<br \/>\ntime. <\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">The next morning, before heading to the zendo for Sunday morning zazen, I<br \/>\npicked up Suzuki Roshi&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Zen_Mind,_Beginner%27s_Mind\"><i>Zen Mind, Beginners Mind<\/i><\/a><br \/>\nand opened it to a random<br \/>\nchapter.&nbsp; By some sort of auspicious<br \/>\nquirk, I turned to the chapter titled, &#8220;God-Giving&#8221; in which Suzuki<br \/>\nlays out<br \/>\nthe teaching of generosity from the Zen perspective.&nbsp;<br \/>\nIn Zen, generosity is known as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.oxherding.com\/my_weblog\/2008\/12\/dana-paramita.html\"><i>dana prajna paramita<\/i><\/a>.&nbsp; As Suzuki Roshi defines the term, <i>praja paramita<\/i><br \/>\nis the &#8220;true wisdom of living&#8221;<br \/>\nand the six <i>prajna paramitas<\/i> are known as the six ways of true living.&nbsp; The concept of <i>dana<\/i> goes beyond<br \/>\nsimply giving monetary donations and deals more fully with how we<br \/>\napproach all<br \/>\naspects of our lives &#8211; from material objects to zazen itself.&nbsp; As I understand it, what the practice of <i>dana <\/i>truly boils down to is a practice of letting go.&nbsp; This does not simply mean letting go of money or clothes for the poor.&nbsp; It also means a deep non-attachment to any and everything we label as &#8220;mine,&#8221; including our past actions.&nbsp; This brings me back to Suzuki Roshi&#8217;s teaching on &#8220;God-giving&#8221; and how it relates to my Saturday afternoon chat with a guy trying to rip me off.&nbsp; Dogen-zenji<br \/>\nsaid, &#8220;to give is non-attachment&#8221;<br \/>\nand Suzuki Roshi goes on to say: <\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-left: 40px\" class=\"MsoNormal\">And we should forget, day-by-day, what we have done; this<br \/>\nis true non-attachment.&nbsp; And we should do<br \/>\nsomething new.&nbsp; To do something new, of<br \/>\ncourse we must know our past, and this is all right.&nbsp; But we should not keep holding onto anything<br \/>\nwe have done; we should only reflect on it.&nbsp;<br \/>\nAnd we must have some idea of what we should do in the future.<\/p>\n<p>As I sat there reading on Sunday morning, I struggled with this passage for a few moments.&nbsp;<br \/>\nI didn&#8217;t particularly like the idea of<br \/>\n&#8220;forgetting&#8221; what I have done.&nbsp; I made a<br \/>\nmistake that afternoon that I certainly did not want to forget or<br \/>\nrepeat.&nbsp; But when I read the passage more closely I understood<br \/>\nthe teaching clearly.&nbsp; What happened is<br \/>\ndone, the mistake was made and the scammer left my apartment with one<br \/>\nof my checks in his pocket.&nbsp; Still, despite that, I don&#8217;t need to beat<br \/>\nmyself up about<br \/>\nit and get bogged down with regret.&nbsp; Instead, I can practice <i>dana prajna paramita<\/i> by simply reflecting on the situation and taking steps to avoid this in the future.&nbsp; In the end, the experience of being scammed inspired me to look more deeply at a teaching that I haven&#8217;t thought about in a long time.&nbsp; As a result, my understanding of the practice has deepened and I feel like I&#8217;ve grown a little bit because of it.&nbsp; At this point, now that all is said and done, I&#8217;m actually grateful to the scammer for<br \/>\nhelping<br \/>\nme look at my practice more closely.&nbsp; It just goes to show: you<br \/>\nnever know who your next teacher will be.&nbsp; 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