{"id":605,"date":"2010-09-24T06:33:45","date_gmt":"2010-09-24T06:33:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/omeoflittlefaith\/2010\/09\/chad-gibbs-when-it-doesnt-seem-fair.html"},"modified":"2010-09-24T06:33:45","modified_gmt":"2010-09-24T06:33:45","slug":"chad-gibbs-when-it-doesnt-seem-fair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/omeoflittlefaith\/2010\/09\/chad-gibbs-when-it-doesnt-seem-fair.html","title":{"rendered":"Chad Gibbs: When It Doesn’t Seem Fair"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Here’s why I like Chad Gibbs:<\/b><\/p>\n

1. The banner<\/b> on every page of his website features a close-up of Tim Tebow’s eyeblack, on which someone, presumably Chad Gibbs, has written “Chad Gibbs.”<\/p>\n

2. The background<\/b> on his Twitter page<\/a> is one of the most memorable designs I’ve ever seen.<\/p>\n

3. He is funny.<\/b> See #1 and #2.<\/p>\n

4. He has written<\/b> a book about SEC football and religion, called God and Football: Faith and Fanaticism in the SEC<\/i><\/a>. Personally, I care about as much about SEC football as I do whether Ashton may or may not be cheating<\/a> on Demi. But I read God and Football<\/i> all the way through, and enjoyed it immensely, despite never having said anything like “Roll Tide” for any reason in my life, even accidentally.<\/p>\n

5. He refers<\/b> to my Friday guest series<\/a> as a “cavalcade of doubt.” See below.<\/p>\n

Ladies and gentlemen, Chad Gibbs…<\/p>\n

————-<\/p>\n

When Jason Boyett<\/b> asked me to join his cavalcade of doubt, my first thought was, ‘I doubt I’ll be able to squeeze in a plug for my new book, God and Football: Faith and Fanaticism in the SEC<\/i><\/a>. But my fears were relieved when I remembered that I am
\nshameless, and even spent most of my grandfather’s funeral visitation telling people
\nabout my book, which incidentally is available for $9.35 on Amazon<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Grandpa’s death was easy for me. Well, as easy as the death of a loved one can be.
\nHe’d been sick, for years it seemed, and every time I visited I knew in the back of my
\nmind it could be the last time I’d see him in this life.<\/p>\n

What made it even easier though was Alabama’s National Championship. I realize
\nthat’s an odd thing to say. But grandpa was a huge Crimson Tide fan, and I grew up
\ngoing to games with my uncle and him. Later in life I would switch allegiances, and
\nattend college at Auburn, Alabama’s archest rival, breaking a bond grandpa and I
\nhad always shared.<\/p>\n

So after Alabama won the National Championship last fall, a fall I had spent
\nresearching a book on keeping football in its proper perspective, I knew I needed to
\ndo something nice for my grandpa. So I made a few phone calls to some friends in
\nAlabama’s athletic department, and was able to arrange for grandpa a personal tour
\nof the athletic department, which included stops at the latest BCS Championship
\nTrophy, and the Heisman Trophy. It was a wonderful day, one I will never forget,
\nand one grandpa talked about until he died, four months later.<\/p>\n

My uncle’s death was much more difficult. It came quick. A car wreck in the middle
\nof the night. And instead of a wonderful final memory, I only recall a jarring 4:00
\nAM phone call.<\/p>\n

What made matters worse was I had been praying for my uncle, along with my best
\nfriend who’d been praying for his own brother. Both men had some issues in their
\nlives, and we knew our prayers were all they needed to overcome.<\/p>\n

It worked for my friend. One glorious Sunday morning, while tornadoes were
\nswirling outside, our pastor ended church early and conducted a quickie invitation.
\nMy friend’s brother stood and walked the aisle. A year’s worth or prayers answered
\nbefore my eyes. I knew my answer would be coming soon. Except it didn’t, and just
\na couple months later we were burying my uncle.<\/p>\n

I’ve never doubted that God existed.<\/b> God has always just sort of been a given for me.
\nBut for the next four years I seriously doubted that he cared, and even wondered
\nat times if he was out to get me. It just didn’t seem fair. I felt I had played by the
\nrules just like my friend, but instead of an answered prayer I had to bury my favorite
\nuncle.<\/p>\n

So what finally changed? What was it that erased my doubts about God’s
\ngoodness? Beats me. Time maybe. Maybe I just got tired of being angry. Maybe I finally realized not everything life is about me, and my uncle’s death, while
\ntragic, may not have been God trying to ruin my junior year of high school.<\/p>\n

Here’s the thing. I don’t sit and think about this stuff that much. I’m just not that
\nintrospective. In the stillness of the night, when I’m alone with my thoughts, I’m
\nmuch more likely to think about how cool it would be if I owned the Millennium
\nFalcon than wonder why God lets bad things happen to good people. But I have had
\nmy struggles with doubt, and can tell you from experience, bottling up your anger is
\nnot the answer. You need to talk about it, in forums like this, to your friends, to your
\nfamily, whoever. Because even if your questions don’t have answers, it’s comforting
\nto know you are not the only one asking them.<\/p>\n

————-<\/p>\n

Thank you, Chad.<\/b> Stay in touch with Chad and his writing via his blog<\/a>, on Twitter<\/a>, or on Facebook<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Previous posts in the “Voices of Doubt” series…<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Leeana Tankersley: The Swirling Waters<\/a>
\u2022 Robert Cargill: The Skeptic in the Sanctuary<\/a>
\u2022 Dana Ellis: Haunted by Questions<\/a>
\u2022 Rachel Held Evans on Works-Based Salvation<\/a>
\u2022 Winn Collier: Doubt Better<\/a>
\u2022 Tyler Clark on Losing Fear, Losing Faith<\/a>
\u2022 Rob Stennett on the Genesis of Doubt<\/a>
\u2022 Adam Ellis on Hoping That It’s True<\/a>
\u2022 Nicole Wick on Breaking Up with God<\/a>
\u2022 Anna Broadway on Doubt and Marriage<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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