{"id":3167,"date":"2016-10-09T01:41:58","date_gmt":"2016-10-09T01:41:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ohmystars\/?p=3167"},"modified":"2019-01-13T00:22:28","modified_gmt":"2019-01-13T00:22:28","slug":"ask-astrologer-leaving-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/ohmystars\/2016\/10\/ask-astrologer-leaving-husband.html","title":{"rendered":"Ask An Astrologer About Leaving Your Husband"},"content":{"rendered":"

(This is part of the “Ask An Astrologer” series<\/a>, where I occasionally try to demonstrate how getting a consultation can genuinely help and provide real guidance, using real-life examples. Want to find out for yourself? There’s a link to my e-mail at the bottom of this blog entry. Write me… and don’t be afraid to ask for my best rate, either).<\/em><\/p>\n

DN writes:<\/strong><\/p>\n

“The man I married doesn’t care for me nor the kids. He drinks and smokes and loves to be with his friends, but only ends up fighting with me.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Is it worth being in this relationship ?<\/em>
\n Is there another love in my life ?<\/em>
\n Is the new job going to be good for me ?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"beliefnet<\/a><\/p>\n

Let me answer the easy question first — the last one.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your general career path is determined primarily by the Midheaven<\/a>.<\/strong> Yours is at 7 degrees Capricorn, and thus is ruled by your Saturn at 23 degrees Aries. That’s where Uranus is now, conjunct your Saturn. Uranus has been in range of that point for a couple of years now, and will be for a couple of years yet. That’s going to bring some unusual circumstances to your career path, so it’s no surprise that you’ve changed jobs. Meanwhile: transiting Jupiter is square your Midheaven now. Squares are often difficult, but Jupiter is a little easier to deal with than most planets are, most of the time. That transit has a couple of months more to go.<\/p>\n

So, overall? Yes, things may be more hectic than you’re used to in the next couple of months, but I believe the new job will ultimately be good for you.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Your second question… “Is there another love in my life ?”<\/strong> is answered with something like this: “Almost certainly… you have a nice Seventh House overall. But are you waiting for that guy to show up before you address the situation with your husband?<\/em>”<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Finally, your first question: “Is it worth being in this relationship?”<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s pretty much impossible to answer properly within the context of a blog entry. Among other things, it would involve looking at your husband’s chart, his transits, and discussing the details personally. This is why, for the big stuff, I recommend people contact me for a full reading.<\/strong> Even then, I avoid telling people what I think<\/em> they should do — I’m not a guru. I’m here to offer advice and guidance, not to dictate. May I gently advise you to avoid the advice of any astrologer who uses their position to flat-out tell you<\/em> what you must<\/em> do.<\/p>\n

Having said that… pretend a friend of yours approached you with “the man I married doesn’t care for me nor the kids. He drinks and smokes and loves to be with his friends, but only ends up fighting with me.”<\/p>\n

What would you<\/em> tell her? And why aren’t you telling yourself the same?<\/em><\/p>\n

Want a free e-book? Sure you do! Click HERE!<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

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CLICK HERE to join the Oh My Stars Facebook Fan Page, and get exclusive content, an additional discount on a reading, more material on blog entries, AND ANOTHER free e-book!<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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