{"id":118,"date":"2016-12-13T06:00:03","date_gmt":"2016-12-13T06:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/nextsteps\/?p=118"},"modified":"2016-12-10T14:20:58","modified_gmt":"2016-12-10T14:20:58","slug":"118","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/nextsteps\/2016\/12\/118.html","title":{"rendered":"Has Your Comfort Turned to Pride?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><span id=\"en-NIV-22271\" class=\"text Hos-13-4\"><span class=\"versenum\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-119\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/403\/2016\/12\/55la3cisjkq-madi-robson-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"55la3cisjkq-madi-robson\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/>4\u00a0<\/span>\u201cBut I have been the\u00a0<span class=\"small-caps\">Lord<\/span>\u00a0your God<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"indent-1-breaks\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"text Hos-13-4\">ever since you came out of Egypt.<\/span><\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span class=\"text Hos-13-4\">You shall acknowledge\u00a0no God but me,<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"indent-1-breaks\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"text Hos-13-4\">no Savior\u00a0except me.<\/span><\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span id=\"en-NIV-22272\" class=\"text Hos-13-5\"><span class=\"versenum\">5\u00a0<\/span>I cared for you in the wilderness,<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"indent-1-breaks\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"text Hos-13-5\">in the land of burning heat.<\/span><\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span id=\"en-NIV-22273\" class=\"text Hos-13-6\"><span class=\"versenum\">6\u00a0<\/span>When I fed them, they were satisfied;<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"indent-1-breaks\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"text Hos-13-6\">when they were satisfied, they became proud;<\/span><\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"indent-1-breaks\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"text Hos-13-6\">then they forgot\u00a0me.<\/span><\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span id=\"en-NIV-22274\" class=\"text Hos-13-7\"><span class=\"versenum\">7\u00a0<\/span>So I will be like a lion\u00a0to them,<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<span class=\"indent-1\"><em><span class=\"indent-1-breaks\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/em><span class=\"text Hos-13-7\"><em>like a leopard I will lurk by the path.<\/em> Hosea 13:4-7<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>We would never come out and say it, but many of us think that God owes us. As much as we might decry the sense of entitlement in our country, many of us act that way towards God. When God judged the nation of Israel through the prophet Hosea, he called out their pride (something that should scare us all just a little). God had provided for Israel, but Israel became proud. Instead of being grateful for the gifts, she began to expect them. Rather than being thankful, Israel became entitled. Israel began to worship the gifts, not the Giver.<\/p>\n<p>And so God declared judgment on them. God hates pride. That&#8217;s why James 4:6 says: <em>6 God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble<\/em>. That&#8217;s why Jesus starts his most famous sermon with a call to humility: <em>3 Blessed are the poor in Spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven<\/em> (Matthew 5:3).<\/p>\n<p>So this question should haunt all of us living in a first-world country like America: <strong>Has your comfort turned to pride?<\/strong> Have you stopped thanking God for his blessings and started expecting them? Do you get angry with God when things don&#8217;t go exactly as you want because you think somehow He owes you a perfect and pain-free life? Are you looking more to the gift or the Giver? Do you approach life with more of a sense of entitlement or humility?<\/p>\n<p>Do you want God to bless you and favor you? Kill entitlement and cultivate humility.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>4\u00a0\u201cBut I have been the\u00a0Lord\u00a0your God \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0ever since you came out of Egypt. You shall acknowledge\u00a0no God but me, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0no Savior\u00a0except me. 5\u00a0I cared for you in the wilderness, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0in the land of burning heat. 6\u00a0When I fed them, they were satisfied; \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0when they were satisfied, they became proud; \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0then they forgot\u00a0me. 7\u00a0So I will&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":607,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[66,67],"class_list":["post-118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-next-steps","tag-comfort","tag-pride"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Has Your Comfort Turned to Pride? - Next Steps<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Many of us think that God owes us. 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