{"id":18212,"date":"2023-07-10T11:34:42","date_gmt":"2023-07-10T15:34:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/news\/?p=18212"},"modified":"2023-07-10T11:37:22","modified_gmt":"2023-07-10T15:37:22","slug":"a-recovering-bigot-attends-first-pride-parade-apologizes-to-attendees","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/news\/2023\/07\/a-recovering-bigot-attends-first-pride-parade-apologizes-to-attendees","title":{"rendered":"A &#8216;Recovering Bigot&#8217; Attends First Pride Parade, Apologizes to Attendees"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_18221\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18221\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/140\/2023\/07\/justin-nash-pride-parade-credit-kaylie-miller-instagram.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18221\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/140\/2023\/07\/justin-nash-pride-parade-credit-kaylie-miller-instagram.png\" alt=\"justin nash \" width=\"768\" height=\"481\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18221\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">@kayliemillerrealtor\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Justin Nash felt the need to apologize. He wasn\u2019t sure if anyone at the Denver Pride Parade would welcome it, but he was convinced he had to try. After changing his lunch plans, he set out for the parade to share his apology, written in marker on a poster board, with as many people as possible.<\/p>\n<p>The 53-year-old sat in his wheelchair along the parade route, looking slightly out of place in a Texas Rangers ball cap and chinos. Still, he gave a sheepish smile and held up a sign for the brightly colored streams of passersby to see. His sign read, \u201cRecovering bigot. I am sorry!\u201d It added that Nash was offering free hugs.<\/p>\n<p>The marchers who passed through downtown Denver took him up on his offer, again and again, as onlookers cheered. One person said, \u201cYou are forgiven, and we love you and thank you.\u201d Another person gave him a necklace of rainbow-colored flowers. Videos and photos of the \u201crecovering bigot\u201d went viral as Nash\u2019s special message of humility and support resonated on social media. Nash told <em>The Washington Post <\/em>he didn\u2019t do it as a stunt and didn\u2019t plan to attend the parade that day.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, Nash had driven to Denver with his wife from their home in Amarillo, Texas, to visit family. However, when he learned about the city\u2019s Pride parade, he saw the chance to continue a lengthy, personal journey. For about 20 years, he had been on a journey to unlearn beliefs about the LGBTQ+ community that he internalized from his past religious beliefs and family growing up in the Texas panhandle, beliefs he now regrets.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Ct77w_8Oorc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Ct77w_8Oorc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Kaylie Lynn Miller (@kayliemillerrealtor)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Nash said, \u201cFor me to sit in that parade with that sign was 20 years in the making.\u201d He described his previous beliefs in uncertain terms. He was taught that being gay is wrong. He\u2019s never yelled hateful things or outright shunned someone over it, but he remembered an upbringing where some family and friends cavalierly dismissed other sexualities and races in crude terms. It left Nash feeling uncomfortable with colleagues and friends who were gay, saying, \u201cIt was like anyone that was different from you was not okay.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Ct77w_8Oorc\/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D\">Kaylie Miller, who attended the parade with her wife<\/a>, Ashley, quickly spotted Nash as she approached the block where he sat holding his sign. At first, she feared he was a protester. Then she got closer and read his sign. \u201cI was so overcome with joy,\u201d Miller said. \u201cI just literally started jumping up and down across the crosswalk.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Miller ran over to Nash and asked if Ashley could take a picture of them. \u201cHe said to me, \u2018Only if I get to look you in the eyes and say I\u2019m sorry and give you a hug first,\u2019\u201d Miller recalled. A steady stream of marchers peeled off from the street to embrace Nash throughout the morning. He counted them, 76 hugs in total. In snatches of conversation, people thanked him and asked him about his past.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI learned a lot about love and inclusion from the people that I previously had a barrier against,\u201d he said. Nash is glad, if a little taken aback, that his story has reached so far. It was the urging of friends and family that pushed him to change his views, he said. He hopes he can pay it forward.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Justin Nash felt the need to apologize. He wasn\u2019t sure if anyone at the Denver Pride Parade would welcome it, but he was convinced he had to try. After changing his lunch plans, he set out for the parade to share his apology, written in marker on a poster board, with as many people as&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":657,"featured_media":18221,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fbia_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2444,7,1022],"tags":[52,3626],"class_list":["post-18212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-america","category-around-the-web","category-gay-rights-2","tag-gay-rights","tag-pride-parade"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>A &#039;Recovering Bigot&#039; Attends First Pride Parade, Apologizes to Attendees<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Justin Nash recently attended his first Pride parade, holdinga sign that offered an apology to the LGBTQ+ community for 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