{"id":462,"date":"2011-06-03T12:00:42","date_gmt":"2011-06-03T16:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/myhappyplace\/?p=462"},"modified":"2011-06-03T12:00:42","modified_gmt":"2011-06-03T16:00:42","slug":"log-in-with-gratefulness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/myhappyplace\/2011\/06\/log-in-with-gratefulness.html","title":{"rendered":"Log-in with Gratefulness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I remember when I first realized the power of belief. I found out that what I expected truly did come about: focus makes things happen.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_465\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-465\" style=\"width: 215px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/myhappyplace\/files\/2011\/06\/paradise-trail.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-465\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/233\/2011\/06\/paradise-trail-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"215\" height=\"161\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-465\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">One of the nature trails in our woods<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>At first I was excited with all the possibilities;\u00a0 I started to imagine a place in the country, vacations, an exciting career, a new van, etc. And all of those dreams did come true. When I realized this way of thinking in fact did work,\u00a0 I then had to sit down and think about what I <em>really<\/em> wanted. The answer surprised me.<\/p>\n<p><em>I wanted more of what I already had. I wanted more of the same.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>There are simple, fabulous things happening each and every day and I want to truly appreciate those things and I also want those things to continue into tomorrow and the next day and the next day. That&#8217;s when I hit upon the most valuable thought of all. If I can log-in with the password &#8220;Grateful&#8221;, the things I love about my life get bigger and happen more often. They take center stage. The things I don&#8217;t like about my life become fuzzy and out-of-focus&#8230;sometimes they even disappear.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_464\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-464\" style=\"width: 239px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/myhappyplace\/files\/2011\/06\/DSC_6697editbwwm.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-464\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/233\/2011\/06\/DSC_6697editbwwm-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"239\" height=\"159\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-464\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yes, I do have so much for which to be thankful. I know that.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>With that in mind, I want you (and God) to know that today I am specifically\u00a0 grateful for these five things&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I&#8217;m thankful for a husband who really listens to me&#8230;sees  me&#8230;knows  me. It&#8217;s what every human wants&#8211;for someone to &#8220;click in&#8221;  and truly  focus. It makes me think of that movie <em>Avatar<\/em> when they\u00a0 say to each other &#8220;I see you.&#8221; He sees me and I am grateful.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m grateful for healthy, happy, fascinating children who are  learning and growing and communicating with me.\u00a0 I&#8217;m thankful for this  moment in time where my life is full of them and their lives are full of  me.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m grateful for Annabelle, my cat. I&#8217;m grateful that she has chosen me over everyone else in the house and if I call she appears, ready and willing to calm my nerves and commune with me in cat-speak ;).\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_466\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-466\" style=\"width: 110px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/myhappyplace\/files\/2011\/06\/annabelle.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-466\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/233\/2011\/06\/annabelle-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"110\" height=\"110\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-466\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Annabelle when she was a kitten<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m grateful for the stress-relieving nature paths my husband has made for us through the woods. Walking under the green boughs is like walking right in to a storybook. It&#8217;s impossible to take anxiety in to such a sacred place.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<figure id=\"attachment_463\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-463\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/myhappyplace\/files\/2011\/06\/sassy-with-kids.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-463\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/233\/2011\/06\/sassy-with-kids-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-463\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&quot;Children, I SEE you!&quot; <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I&#8217;m thankful for opportunities to perform next week. I love the stage and I love sharing that stage with bright little stars who hunger for a chance to shine. I&#8217;m thankful for each child in each audience and for the opportunity to &#8220;see&#8221; them all.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And now it is <strong>your<\/strong> turn! Tell me, please, what five things are you thankful for today? Log in under the word &#8220;Grateful&#8221;&#8211; It will make everything SHINE!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remember when I first realized the power of belief. I found out that what I expected truly did come about: focus makes things happen. 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