{"id":4390,"date":"2016-10-04T09:20:36","date_gmt":"2016-10-04T13:20:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/?p=4390"},"modified":"2016-10-04T09:20:36","modified_gmt":"2016-10-04T13:20:36","slug":"a-thief-in-the-night","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2016\/10\/a-thief-in-the-night.html","title":{"rendered":"A Thief in the Night"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-4391\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2016\/10\/IMG_4321-400x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_4321\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" \/>I was recently in Southern California and saw this message plastered on a car. I thought to myself, &#8220;this is not the best metaphor.&#8221; I didn&#8217;t realize at the time that it is a quote from the Bible.<\/p>\n<p>Now that I know its ecclesiastical credibility, I still don&#8217;t think it is the best metaphor.<\/p>\n<p>We can think of metaphors broadly as the process of understanding one thing in terms of another. The other thing is more familiar and creates associated commonplaces between the known and the less known, unknown, or something we wish to know more deeply.<\/p>\n<p>In this Biblical metaphor, the associated commonplace is the furtiveness of both thieves and salvation, a kind of criminal soteriology, if you will.<\/p>\n<p>Metaphors both highlight\u00a0and hide different aspects of experience. A good metaphor will illuminate things that had not been considered before or create new possibilities or a sense of connection.<\/p>\n<p>I once heard a metaphor that compassion was like lotion for the heart. Yuck! While this image (really a simile) conveys the sense that compassion is soothing, the image is disgusting. It just doesn&#8217;t work for me because lotion does not belong in or on our internal organs.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-4295\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2016\/05\/Cover_108Metaphors-333x500.jpg\" alt=\"Cover_108Metaphors\" width=\"333\" height=\"500\" \/>As the title suggests, my book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wisdompubs.org\/book\/108-metaphors-mindfulness\">108 Metaphors for Mindfulness <\/a>is a compendium of classical and contemporary metaphors for understanding mind, self, our quirkiness, acceptance, and practicing mindfulness. It was recently re-released from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wisdompubs.org\/book\/108-metaphors-mindfulness\">Wisdom Publications<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>These metaphors range from complex images and stories to simple comparisons. One of my favorites is the DVD commentary, a metaphor that was very au currant in 2007 when I wrote this book but getting a bit dated now with the popularity of streaming media.<\/p>\n<p>If you still watch DVDs and watch the &#8220;director&#8217;s commentary&#8221; that mode is very much like how we conduct our mental lives. The &#8220;movie&#8221; of our life is there in the background and we talk over it, rendering opinion after opinion, meanwhile missing out on the richness of the movie.<\/p>\n<p>The entirety of our lives is a metaphoric process as we are always understanding one thing in terms of another. In fact, this is the way that our brains work. We never experience something completely new and always from what we have already learned, experienced, and remembered.<\/p>\n<p>The key is to keep our categories flexible, not being so beholden to what we already think we know and opening to the possibilities of each moment. Look for a new metaphor today as you move about the world. Write and tell me what you discover!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was recently in Southern California and saw this message plastered on a car. I thought to myself, &#8220;this is not the best metaphor.&#8221; I didn&#8217;t realize at the time that it is a quote from the Bible. Now that I know its ecclesiastical credibility, I still don&#8217;t think it is the best metaphor. 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Dr. Kozak's ability to translate ancient healing traditions into pragmatic applications suitable for modern lifestyles through the use of metaphors have made him a strong voice in healthcare and business. Beginning with a journey to India in the 80\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s where he took the Bodhisattva vows from His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Arnie Dr. Kozak began his lifelong practice in mindfulness meditation. Intent on finding a way to bring the practical healing attributes of mindfulness he began incorporating these techniques in his private practice. In 2002 Dr. Kozak created Exquisite Mind in Burlington, Vermont as a vehicle that could expand his wisdom to larger audiences beyond individual psychotherapy to professionals and corporations, health care providers, public groups and, most recently with Exquisite Mind Golf, amateur and professional golfers. His award-winning new book, Wild Chickens and Petty Tyrants: 108 Metaphors for Mindfulness (Wisdom Publications, 2009) is a thoughtful, funny, and inspiring translation of mindfulness practice through the inventive use of metaphor applicable to our daily lives. In addition to his work with Exquisite Mind, Arnie Kozak, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist\u00e2\u20ac\u201dDoctorate has been a Lecturer in Psychology at the University of Vermont and is a Clinical Instructor in Psychiatry and Medicine, University of Vermont College of Medicine. He has studied and practiced clinical psychology, meditation, and yoga for more than 25 years. He has studied with several meditation masters, including S. N. Goenka, Larry Rosenberg, Gurumayi Chidvilasananda, and His Holiness the Dalai Lama. After receiving his bachelors degree with honors from Tufts University, he was awarded a Presidential Fellowship to get his Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the University at Buffalo. He completed his training as a Psychological Fellow at the Harvard Medical School. Prior to founding the Exquisite Mind in 2002, Arnie worked ten years in the private sector for the PKC Corporation consulting on mental health content for this revolutionary software company.","sameAs":["http:\/\/exquisitemind.com"],"url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/author\/akozak"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4390","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/268"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4390"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4390\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4394,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4390\/revisions\/4394"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4390"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4390"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4390"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}