{"id":4122,"date":"2015-09-17T10:18:25","date_gmt":"2015-09-17T14:18:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/?p=4122"},"modified":"2015-09-13T11:12:06","modified_gmt":"2015-09-13T15:12:06","slug":"f-is-for-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2015\/09\/f-is-for-fear.html","title":{"rendered":"F is for Fear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-4123\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2015\/09\/11951305_955043734554402_6517268131513834839_n.jpg\" alt=\"11951305_955043734554402_6517268131513834839_n\" width=\"275\" height=\"410\" \/>Mindfulness A to Z<\/em>\u00a0official release is 5 days away!<\/p>\n<p>Here is an excerpt from &#8220;F is for Fear&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Fear arises from a mistaken apprehension of reality. The Buddha called this mistaken apprehension \u201cignorance\u201d or \u201cdelusion.\u201d We labor under the erroneous belief that our well-being is contingent on circumstances: \u201cIf life is comfortable and I get what I want, I will be happy. If I don\u2019t, I will be miserable.\u201d When we examine this assumption more carefully, it doesn\u2019t hold up. We reg<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">ularly see people who are happy in spite of the terrible circumstances of their lives and others who are hopelessly depressed even in the most ideal of circumstances. It is our attitude toward the circumstances in which we find ourselves that makes the difference.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"text_exposed_show\">\n<p>\u2014<a class=\"profileLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/DrArnieKozak\">Arnie Kozak<\/a>, Mindfulness A to Z: 108 Insights for Awakening Now<\/p>\n<p>Available right now from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wisdompubs.org\/book\/mindfulness-a-to-z\">Wisdom Publications<\/a> and wherever books are sold on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Mindfulness-108-Insights-Awakening-Now\/dp\/1614290571\/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8\">September 22nd<\/a>!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mindfulness A to Z\u00a0official release is 5 days away! Here is an excerpt from &#8220;F is for Fear&#8221; Fear arises from a mistaken apprehension of reality. The Buddha called this mistaken apprehension \u201cignorance\u201d or \u201cdelusion.\u201d We labor under the erroneous belief that our well-being is contingent on circumstances: \u201cIf life is comfortable and I get&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":268,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,12,9,14],"tags":[33,458,1004,1027,1049],"class_list":["post-4122","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-book-shelf","category-buddha-101","category-mindfulnesss","category-recommended","tag-awakening","tag-fear","tag-mindfulness-a-to-z","tag-teachings-of-the-buddha","tag-wisdom-publications-new-books-on-mindfulness"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>F is for Fear - Mindfulness Matters<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2015\/09\/f-is-for-fear.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"F is for Fear - Mindfulness Matters\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Mindfulness A to Z\u00a0official release is 5 days away! 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Dr. Kozak's ability to translate ancient healing traditions into pragmatic applications suitable for modern lifestyles through the use of metaphors have made him a strong voice in healthcare and business. Beginning with a journey to India in the 80\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s where he took the Bodhisattva vows from His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Arnie Dr. Kozak began his lifelong practice in mindfulness meditation. Intent on finding a way to bring the practical healing attributes of mindfulness he began incorporating these techniques in his private practice. In 2002 Dr. Kozak created Exquisite Mind in Burlington, Vermont as a vehicle that could expand his wisdom to larger audiences beyond individual psychotherapy to professionals and corporations, health care providers, public groups and, most recently with Exquisite Mind Golf, amateur and professional golfers. His award-winning new book, Wild Chickens and Petty Tyrants: 108 Metaphors for Mindfulness (Wisdom Publications, 2009) is a thoughtful, funny, and inspiring translation of mindfulness practice through the inventive use of metaphor applicable to our daily lives. In addition to his work with Exquisite Mind, Arnie Kozak, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist\u00e2\u20ac\u201dDoctorate has been a Lecturer in Psychology at the University of Vermont and is a Clinical Instructor in Psychiatry and Medicine, University of Vermont College of Medicine. He has studied and practiced clinical psychology, meditation, and yoga for more than 25 years. He has studied with several meditation masters, including S. N. Goenka, Larry Rosenberg, Gurumayi Chidvilasananda, and His Holiness the Dalai Lama. After receiving his bachelors degree with honors from Tufts University, he was awarded a Presidential Fellowship to get his Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the University at Buffalo. He completed his training as a Psychological Fellow at the Harvard Medical School. Prior to founding the Exquisite Mind in 2002, Arnie worked ten years in the private sector for the PKC Corporation consulting on mental health content for this revolutionary software company.","sameAs":["http:\/\/exquisitemind.com"],"url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/author\/akozak"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4122","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/268"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4122"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4122\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4150,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4122\/revisions\/4150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4122"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4122"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4122"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}