{"id":3484,"date":"2014-06-10T13:25:17","date_gmt":"2014-06-10T17:25:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/?p=3484"},"modified":"2014-06-11T20:14:43","modified_gmt":"2014-06-12T00:14:43","slug":"selling-water-by-the-river-the-deceptive-simplicity-of-learning-mindfulness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2014\/06\/selling-water-by-the-river-the-deceptive-simplicity-of-learning-mindfulness.html","title":{"rendered":"Selling Water by the River: The Deceptive Simplicity of Learning Mindfulness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2014\/06\/AA021036.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-3487\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2014\/06\/AA021036.jpg\" alt=\"AA021036\" width=\"443\" height=\"293\" \/><\/a>The proliferation of all things mindfulness is mind boggling (does that make one more or less mindful, I wonder?). Research, teachers, books, blogs, and applications continue to grow. It may be safe to say, mindfulness has become a fad. There could certainly be worse things to generate a bandwagon effect. I am certainly pleased to be a part of this movement and play my small role.<\/p>\n<p>The title of this blog entry comes from a saying in the mindfulness teaching community. Teaching mindfulness is like selling water by the river. The students could just go down the river themselves and drink this water. Mindfulness is a native skill; why do you need a teacher? The reason is that while mindfulness is simple in concept it can be quite challenging to figure out how to insinuate it into your life. This is where a teacher becomes indispensable.<\/p>\n<p>Unless you can be self-motivated, the structure of a class really helps.\u00a0NICABM (National institute for the Application of Behavioral Medicine) offers online courses with prominent teachers. Recently, <a title=\"A Special Opportunity for Opening Your Heart in Relationship with Tara Brach\" href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2014\/03\/a-special-opportunity-for-opening-your-heart-in-relationship-with-tara-brach.html\" target=\"_blank\">Tara Brach taught a program on relationships<\/a> and now Jack Kornfield will be teaching a course on the power of mindfulness. <a href=\"http:\/\/exquisitemind.cmail1.com\/t\/j-i-idydtlk-l-p\/\" target=\"_blank\">You can watch some preview videos here.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jack is one of the preeminent mindfulness teachers. He is the author of many books, including the spiritual favorite: After The Ecstasy, The Laundry.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had the pleasure of sitting with him once very briefly and I&#8217;ve read his books and listened to his talks. He is a gentle and intelligent soul that can bring mindfulness teachings to life.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, when the stresses of life start to build, it\u2019s easy to get frustrated and feel like there&#8217;s no way to slow down.<\/p>\n<p>Jack will be teaching an online course through \u00a0Mindfulness can help us to slow down and bring presence to our busy days.<\/p>\n<p>You can check out some course preview videos.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/exquisitemind.cmail1.com\/t\/j-i-idydtlk-l-p\/\"><b>Learn more here:<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The proliferation of all things mindfulness is mind boggling (does that make one more or less mindful, I wonder?). Research, teachers, books, blogs, and applications continue to grow. It may be safe to say, mindfulness has become a fad. There could certainly be worse things to generate a bandwagon effect. 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