{"id":3034,"date":"2013-06-23T14:09:14","date_gmt":"2013-06-23T18:09:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/mindfulnessmatters\/?p=3034"},"modified":"2013-06-23T14:18:19","modified_gmt":"2013-06-23T18:18:19","slug":"mindfulness-a-z-liberating-regret-stuckness-and-perfectionism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2013\/06\/mindfulness-a-z-liberating-regret-stuckness-and-perfectionism.html","title":{"rendered":"Mindfulness A\u2013Z: Liberating Regret, Stuckness, and Perfectionism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2013\/06\/1683240959_T_02.13_SD.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3035 alignnone\" alt=\"1683240959_T_02.13_SD\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/2013\/06\/1683240959_T_02.13_SD.jpg\" width=\"614\" height=\"118\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>From Sunday August 4 to Friday August 9, I will be presenting this special workshop at the Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health.<\/p>\n<p>If you are not familiar, Kripalu is a wonderful place. Nestled in the Berkshire Mountains, it is an oasis of peace, tranquility, and empowerment. I have the great fortune to teach there and I am pleased to present this new workshop in the 5-Day format. It is a spiritual vacation that just might change your life.<\/p>\n<p>Here is my course description:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Do you have trouble getting out of your own way? Do you have a fear of missing out? Do you want more freedom from self-imposed rules, expectations, and limitations? Mindfulness has the power to release you from regret, perfectionism, and other forces that give rise to pervasive dissatisfaction and anguish.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; This workshop combines training in mindfulness meditation and Buddhist psychology with a creative narrative process called Story Art to free you from self-inflicted obstacles. In this program, you<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Learn basic mindfulness skills through formal and informal practices<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Uncover hidden rules, expectations, and stories that keep you stuck, frustrated, and unhappy<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Transcend the harsh internal critic and its proxies: restlessness, impatience, boredom, and distractibility<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Practice Story Art to deal with unsettled issues that are holding you back<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Gain a working, direct knowledge of the Buddha\u2019s psychology.<\/p>\n<p>This life-changing week engages you through mindful self-exploration, humor, poetry, heartfelt discussion, and a creative method for disarming painful and limiting stories.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We will spend time each day exploring the places where we have the most difficulty and using the Story Art process to open a space for change. We will meditate together and learn how to apply the Buddha&#8217;s basic teachings to live our lives free from unnecessary stress, anguish, and limitation.<\/p>\n<p>I hope that you can join us. Please forward this along to any friends who might be interested.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kripalu.org\/program\/view\/LRS-131\/mindfulness_a8211z_liberating_regret_stuckness\" target=\"_blank\">REGISTER HERE &gt;&gt;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From Sunday August 4 to Friday August 9, I will be presenting this special workshop at the Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health. If you are not familiar, Kripalu is a wonderful place. Nestled in the Berkshire Mountains, it is an oasis of peace, tranquility, and empowerment. 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