{"id":134,"date":"2010-09-25T08:14:27","date_gmt":"2010-09-25T08:14:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/mindfulnessmatters\/2010\/09\/sport-saturday.html"},"modified":"2010-09-25T08:14:27","modified_gmt":"2010-09-25T08:14:27","slug":"sport-saturday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/mindfulnessmatters\/2010\/09\/sport-saturday.html","title":{"rendered":"Sport Saturday :: Mindfulness in Sport :: The Embodiment of Awakening (Part Four)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Sport, like life, can be joyful, and some of this joy comes<br \/>\nfrom the quality of attention we bring to the sport, in addition to the<br \/>\nactivity being fun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">However, sometimes we can get caught in a trap of trying<br \/>\ntoo hard or of getting tripped up by expectations that are strident and<br \/>\nunreasonable. This driven feeling can bring distress into the sports activity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Sport becomes work and many of the patterns of feeling and behavior that are<br \/>\npresent for us in work get transferred to play. When distress is present, a<br \/>\nform of compulsive behavior may be present that may be a consequence of what I<br \/>\nterm the Strident Self.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Any activity is vulnerable to this harsh aspect of<br \/>\nself. I have seen this in myself with advanced snowboarding &#8211; a pressure that<br \/>\nis applied from within the self that is pushing towards a peak experience. The<br \/>\nenjoyment of the moment can become supplanted with fretful decisions &#8211; which<br \/>\ntrail to take, and beating oneself up for not making a great run.&nbsp;There have<br \/>\nbeen days when I have come off the mountain bruised and broken, psychologically<br \/>\nas well as physically.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/mindfulnessmatters\/buddha_snow.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"buddha_snow.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/96\/import\/assets_c\/2010\/09\/buddha_snow-thumb-400x300-18103.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I remember this happening one day after a big snowstorm.<br \/>\nAfter becoming aware that I was beating myself up and not connecting with the<br \/>\npure joy of the experience, I paused and sat down in the trees. I ate some snow<br \/>\nand moved my attention from the harsh conversation inside my head to my breath<br \/>\nand then the trees laden with snow, and the beauty of the woods and the<br \/>\nunbroken snow lying before me. I gave myself permission to be present without<br \/>\nexpectations or requirements.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I invoked the kind of gentle self-awareness that<br \/>\nI try to teach my psychotherapy patients and participants in my<br \/>\nmindfulness-based stress reduction classes that I teach. That shifting of<br \/>\nawareness was enough to take me out of my head and into the moment and the full<br \/>\nand indescribable joy of riding the trees in deep powder.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">They say, hot Buddha sweats, cold Buddha shivers, and snow-covered Buddha smiles surfing down the mountain.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">This is something to look forward to as winter approaches.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sport, like life, can be joyful, and some of this joy comes from the quality of attention we bring to the sport, in addition to the activity being fun.&nbsp; However, sometimes we can get caught in a trap of trying too hard or of getting tripped up by expectations that are strident and unreasonable. 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