{"id":69,"date":"2008-05-18T10:28:35","date_gmt":"2008-05-18T10:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/marthawilliamson\/2008\/05\/lizzies-looking-for-an-answer.html"},"modified":"2008-05-18T10:28:35","modified_gmt":"2008-05-18T10:28:35","slug":"lizzies-looking-for-an-answer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/marthawilliamson\/2008\/05\/lizzies-looking-for-an-answer.html","title":{"rendered":"Lizzie&#8217;s Looking for an Answer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/MarthaWilliamson\/2008\/04\/letter_to_a_college_kid.html\" class=\"archiveVid\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"writing%20a%20letter.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/MarthaWilliamson\/writing%20a%20letter.jpg\" width=\"160\" height=\"120\" \/><br \/>\nWatch<br \/> <strong>Letter to a College Kid<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/a><br \/>\nOur Mother&#8217;s Day video got a great deal of response.  So many moving stories from you about your own mothers and your plans to honor them.  I was deeply affected by the letters from those of you who have recently lost your moms; this will be a hard Mother&#8217;s Day for you and our prayers are with you.<br \/>\nOne of the most interesting comments was from a young lady named Lizzie, who apologized that her letter wasn&#8217;t really about mothers at all.  Here&#8217;s what she wrote:<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n<em>I&#8217;m a teenager and I feel that as I get older I don&#8217;t want t be around my parents or God as much as I used to. I think God can wait, and when I get older I&#8217;ll become the devout christian I want to be. But it&#8217;s hard to know which direction I should be turning. When I pray at my christian school I feel that the Christian part of my life is done and I can check that off the list. I feel horrible that I am doing this most days and I don&#8217;t know what to do about it. Would you have any help with this?<br \/>\nSorry this doesn&#8217;t relate to the video. <\/em><br \/>\nActually, I think it was very timely letter, Lizzie.  Maybe it wasn&#8217;t so much about mothers, but it was certainly about being someone&#8217;s daughter &#8211; your parents&#8217; daughter as well as a child of God and how conflicted we can feel about all of that when we&#8217;re teen-agers.<br \/>\nI actually wrote an essay for my high school English class about the very feelings you describe.  That was way, way back in the 70&#8217;s!  But even though the world has changed a lot since then, I don&#8217;t believe that our hearts have changed that much.  I&#8217;m going to try to find that essay for you, make a video about it, and see if it encourages you at all.  At least it will say, yes, you&#8217;re not alone in your feelings about your parents and about finding a relationship with your Creator. And there is hope for sorting through it all.<br \/>\nIn the meantime, check out this video that played a few weeks ago.  <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/MarthaWilliamson\/2008\/04\/letter_to_a_college_kid.html\">&#8220;Letter to a College Kid&#8221; <\/a><br \/>\nTake care and please keep writing.  And let the comments that others have posted to you encourage you as well!<br \/>\n<em><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/MarthaWilliamson\/\">Click here<\/a> to see Martha&#8217;s newest video.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Watch Letter to a College Kid Our Mother&#8217;s Day video got a great deal of response. So many moving stories from you about your own mothers and your plans to honor them. 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