{"id":99,"date":"2018-06-28T11:35:58","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T11:35:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=99"},"modified":"2018-06-28T11:35:58","modified_gmt":"2018-06-28T11:35:58","slug":"4-signs-shes-get-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2018\/06\/4-signs-shes-get-date.html","title":{"rendered":"4 Signs That She\u2019s Down to Get Down After the Date!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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So you\u2019re out on a date with a girl for the first time.\u00a0 She\u2019s pretty cool and nothing strikes you that she\u2019s a\u00a0stage five clinger<\/a>. The convo throughout the night has gone really smooth with a lot of giggling here and there.\u00a0 There\u2019s no doubt about it; you\u2019re feeling pretty damn good about the night and you\u2019d love to invite her over to your place. So how do you know if she was digging you too?\u00a0 You don\u2019t want to invite her over, make her feel uncomfortable, and ruin everything. It\u2019s always easy to determine if you\u2019re digging the girl but it get\u2019s a little harder when you want to know if she\u2019s feeling the same way about you. Here\u2019s a 4 signs that will surely tell you whether or not she\u2019s\u00a0hoping for the invite back to your place.<\/p>\n

4. She\u2019s keeping eye contact<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Pay close attention to her eye contact when it\u2019s nearing the end of the date.\u00a0 When she\u2019s into you, she\u2019s into you and only you.\u00a0 That means she\u2019s not interested in anything else around here.\u00a0 Paying close attention to here eye\u2019s will tell you if she\u2019s bored or is trying to figure out what you look like with those pants off.<\/p>\n

3. She\u2019s keeping conversation<\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s common sense in everyday interaction but on a date, you sometimes forget these things. Take note to the conversation, especially towards the end of the date.\u00a0 Is she maintaining convo on her own?\u00a0 Is she actually going out of her way to spark a conversation?\u00a0 If so, she\u2019s trying to get you focused on her and nothing else\u2026which is always a positive sign.\u00a0 If you find her giving short answers to your questions and barely providing input, then you know she\u2019s lost and not interested.\u00a0 You never want to ask a girl over if she\u2019s lost and not interested because if she doesn\u2019t want to maintain convo with you, she more than likely doesn\u2019t want to see you naked either.<\/p>\n

2. Read that\u00a0<\/strong>body language<\/h2>\n

Body not facing you when you\u2019re talking?\u00a0 Walks way in front of you instead of beside you?\u00a0 Runs out the door to grab a cab as soon as the check comes?\u00a0 These are all pretty bad signs as you can imagine.\u00a0 Somehow, after observing things like this, men still are able to convince themselves that she might be interested in coming over after the date.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be a fool.\u00a0 Body language is one of (if not the most) obvious signals someone can send you.\u00a0 If she\u2019s going out of her way to touch you (even if it\u2019s just grabbing your hand) or makes a point to sit next to you rather than across from you, then you\u2019re doing something right.\u00a0 All these things are ways she is telling you without talking if she\u2019s interested in extending the date at your place .<\/p>\n

1. Making subtle hints<\/strong><\/h2>\n

When people want something they usually will give off little clues during normal conversation to help the other person out. For example, if your date keeps mentioning how they need to get to bed early or has plans with a friend for after, it\u2019s probably not a good idea to ask her back.\u00a0 However, if she mentions that she doesn\u2019t have anything going on or suggests that\u00a0the two of you should rent her favorite movie sometime in the future, then she\u2019s throwing you clues in hopes for an\u00a0invite to your place.\u00a0Don\u2019t be oblivious because verbal cues can be the easiest signs to pick up on.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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