{"id":510,"date":"2019-07-03T10:10:21","date_gmt":"2019-07-03T10:10:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=510"},"modified":"2019-07-03T10:10:21","modified_gmt":"2019-07-03T10:10:21","slug":"appropriate-club-clothing-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2019\/07\/appropriate-club-clothing-men.html","title":{"rendered":"Appropriate Club Clothing For Men"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Clubbing is the fast food version of dating. There often isn\u2019t an opportunity to know a person with great detail; you\u2019re often menu shopping. Most, if not all of the decisions about a person at a club is based on their looks, what they are wearing, and how they are acting. With the club crowds, we man tend to look the same as some styles become similar. There are some that stick out, and for better or worse they are: guys without a shirt, sexual innuendo shirt guy, dude whose ballin\u2019, and guys with a collared shirt. Sounds somewhat boring, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Clubbing is about looks, some work, some don\u2019t. At the end of the night you\u2019re going to be hot and sweaty anyway, so what ever you\u2019re wearing is going to get messed up by the end of the night. You have to make sure your outfit grabs attention<\/a> while in the club, and separates you from the boring classifications.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t\u00a0floss\u00a0at the club. You think you\u2019re showing off, but unless you\u2019re in VIP and have a few bottles at your table, you\u2019re not impressing anyone. The jewelry is going to get lost, stolen or broken. Massive amounts of bling doesn\u2019t help attract women. While it says you may have some money, it doesn\u2019t even your odds over someone who doesn\u2019t have any jewelry. The only way you\u2019re going to get attention from women at a club with shiny things hanging around your neck, is if you\u2019re giving it away. Save them for the music videos that you\u2019re never going to be in.<\/p>\n

Choose your shirts carefully. I often recommend wearing a button shirt while clubbing, but a graphic tee could also work, but don\u2019t get stupid. The \u201cF.B.I. \u2013 Full Body Inspector\u201d or \u201cChoking Hazard\u201d shirts makes you look like a tool. Women aren\u2019t attracted to guys who show off their sexual prowess on a Hanes 100% cotton t-shirt.<\/p>\n

On the subjects of attire, most clubs have a dress code, with often include no boots, t-shirts and often jeans. If you\u2019re going to a club, know the dress code before you go, and stick to it for every other club you attend. This helps organize your wardrobe. You can have clothing that\u2019s strictly for clubbing.<\/p>\n

For specific outfits, I recommend keeping things casual, jeans, a button shirt or polo, some accessories, should work. If you sweat profusefly, try sticking with dark clothing, as you don\u2019t want your sweat showing while on the dance floor. Find accessories that will separate you from the other men in the room: watches, wrist wear, finger wear, etc. Don\u2019t underestimate a good belt buckle, while this may seem silly, something interesting at your waist will land tons of attention. For shoes, find a good pair of Sketchers. Something that looks casual, but is comfortable, you\u2019re going to be in your feet, and you don\u2019t want to look uncomfortable while dancing.<\/p>\n

Often times, you\u2019ll have one chance to make a good impression on a person. Don\u2019t blow it with your looks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Clubbing is the fast food version of dating. There often isn\u2019t an opportunity to know a person with great detail; you\u2019re often menu shopping. Most, if not all of the decisions about a person at a club is based on their looks, what they are wearing, and how they are acting. 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