{"id":330,"date":"2019-01-08T14:53:18","date_gmt":"2019-01-08T14:53:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=330"},"modified":"2019-01-08T14:53:44","modified_gmt":"2019-01-08T14:53:44","slug":"captivates-men-womens-uniqueness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2019\/01\/captivates-men-womens-uniqueness.html","title":{"rendered":"What Captivates Men? A Women&#8217;s Uniqueness!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-331 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/411\/2019\/01\/unique-300x221.jpg\" alt=\"unique\" width=\"402\" height=\"296\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A few weeks ago someone asked me, \u201cWhat\u2019s up with men and Asians? Why do you go so crazy for them?\u201d The answer was simple, Asian women are considered \u201cexotic\u201d. There\u2019s something different,\u00a0appearance\u00a0wise and\u00a0culturally, that make them stand more than other women. While this answer may be true for many men, it\u2019s not completely accurate. In most cases, this answer applies to American Men, or American Men in areas where there isn\u2019t much diversity. I\u2019m sure, at the same time this question was being asked, some women in Tokyo was asking her male friend, \u201cWhat\u2019s up with men and White women? Why do you go so crazy for them?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Men, universally, are drawn to a woman\u2019s uniqueness. There\u2019s several ways a woman can be unique.<\/p>\n<p>Some women are seen are more \u201cexotic\u201d than others. Look thru any male magazine and look at the type of women we stereotypically go crazy for. Very rarely are these the \u201cGirls Next Door,\u201d they are very distinct, unique looking women. I\u2019m talking beyond just the size of a woman\u2019s breasts and how toned she is, I\u2019m talking about the physical and cultural attributes that make her different from any other woman. Depending on where you live, a woman with an accent, not common to the area, would general more attention. The same can be said about hair color, eye color, height, language, daily rituals, common clothing; the list is endless. There are very unique attributes to certain women, that captivate our attention.<\/p>\n<p>Uniqueness isn\u2019t solely based on physical characteristics. There\u2019s personality, activities, and personal preferences that make certain women more unique than others. The same way physical and ethnic traits can be deemed as unique, so are the other characteristics that make a woman who they are. For instance, a woman who loves a particular sport, or sports team, would draw more interest from guys who enjoy watching that sport or sport team. A girl who\u2019s a Jets fan will always get my attention than a girl who just enjoys football, an example of an exotic woman would be someone who loves all of my favorite sports teams, can kick my butt in Street Fighter, and looks like a supermodel. For my friends, the combinations are different, different teams, sports, activities, and traits that make them who they are.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t just look pretty, or just like sports, there\u2019s certain combination that draw the attention of certain men. This isn\u2019t a math formula, you can\u2019t plugin-in \u201cLikes Sports\u201d and \u201cHas Great Legs\u201d to get a the guy that you want. Instead, you need to stand out from the other women in his life. Big boobs doesn\u2019t just cut it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few weeks ago someone asked me, \u201cWhat\u2019s up with men and Asians? Why do you go so crazy for them?\u201d The answer was simple, Asian women are considered \u201cexotic\u201d. There\u2019s something different,\u00a0appearance\u00a0wise and\u00a0culturally, that make them stand more than other women. While this answer may be true for many men, it\u2019s not completely accurate.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":620,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>What Captivates Men? 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