{"id":304,"date":"2019-01-04T14:19:19","date_gmt":"2019-01-04T14:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=304"},"modified":"2021-04-14T09:11:10","modified_gmt":"2021-04-14T09:11:10","slug":"101-new-years-resolutions-can-actually-keep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2019\/01\/101-new-years-resolutions-can-actually-keep.html","title":{"rendered":"101 New Year&#8217;s Resolutions That You Can Actually Keep"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-326 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/411\/2019\/01\/glenn-carstens-peters-190592-unsplash-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"glenn-carstens-peters-190592-unsplash\" width=\"497\" height=\"331\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, I know, you want to lose weight, stop smoking, exercise and be better to yourself in 2019. Good for you; those are fine goals. But let&#8217;s get a little more specific in the coming year, shall we? I&#8217;m just gonna riff here. No one can do all these things, but try a few and see what happens.<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Smile more.<br \/>\n2.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 Yell less.<br \/>\n3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Take more bubble baths.<br \/>\n4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Read more books.<br \/>\n5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Be grateful.<br \/>\n6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Give someone the benefit of the doubt.<br \/>\n7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Drink champagne.<br \/>\n8.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Try a dish you&#8217;ve never had before.<br \/>\n9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Refuse to worry.<br \/>\n10.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ask someone out.<br \/>\n11.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ignore a slight.<br \/>\n12.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Take that vacation even though it&#8217;s over your budget. The memories are worth it.<br \/>\n13.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accuradio.com\/reggae\/\">Listen to reggae music<\/a>.<br \/>\n14.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Turn off the computer and go outside.<br \/>\n15.\u00a0 \u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/dostbikes.com\/\">Buy\u00a0an electric bike<\/a>.<br \/>\n16.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sound-Music-Julie-Andrews\/dp\/B0044XRIMW\">Watch\u00a0The Sound Of Music.<\/a><br \/>\n17.\u00a0 \u00a0 Buy a foam memory mattress to <a href=\"https:\/\/getbestmattress.com\">sleep well<\/a>.<br \/>\n18.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stop expecting perfection.<br \/>\n19.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Judge less.<br \/>\n20.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Empathize more.<br \/>\n21.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Buy a better pillow.<br \/>\n22.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.moneycrashers.com\/good-places-volunteer-opportunities-organizations\/\">Volunteer for a good cause<\/a>.<br \/>\n23.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Write someone a letter by hand and mail it.<br \/>\n24.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Start a journal.<br \/>\n25.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Watch a documentary. True stories are often more powerful than fiction.<br \/>\n26.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tip well for good service.<br \/>\n27.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Don&#8217;t text and drive.<br \/>\n28.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Go for a walk in the woods.<br \/>\n29.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Listen more than you talk.<br \/>\n30.\u00a0 \u00a0 Read Mary Karr&#8217;s\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/14241.The_Liars_Club\">The Liars Club<\/a>.<br \/>\n31.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Drink more water.<br \/>\n32.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Thank a vet for serving.<br \/>\n33.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Get a checkup.<br \/>\n34.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Go to the after-work party once, even if you dislike your co-workers.<br \/>\n35.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Listen to old Bill Cosby comedy routines.<br \/>\n36.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Make the right choice, even if it&#8217;s the hard one.<br \/>\n37.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Grow something.<br \/>\n38.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Encourage someone.<br \/>\n39.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Forgive yourself.<br \/>\n40.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Go to a museum.<br \/>\n41.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Make something with your hands.<br \/>\n42.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tell someone you love them, even if it&#8217;s embarrassing.<br \/>\n43.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Be honest.<br \/>\n44.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Learn CPR.<br \/>\n45.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Never give up on your dreams no matter how impossible they seem.<br \/>\n46.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Splurge on an article of clothing.<br \/>\n47.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Take a train ride somewhere.<br \/>\n48.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Focus on what&#8217;s good about someone instead of what&#8217;s bad.<br \/>\n49.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stay at a bed and breakfast.<br \/>\n50.\u00a0 \u00a0 Don&#8217;t give other people the power to determine how you feel about yourself.<br \/>\n51.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Take a day off for no reason.<br \/>\n52.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Be quick to praise.<br \/>\n53.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Be slow to criticize.<br \/>\n54.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Listen to the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/0I6Bl1dVB1hQsSoQF6KuTg\">Les Mis\u00e9rables\u00a0soundtrack<\/a><br \/>\n55.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.moviefone.com\/movie\/roman-holiday\/1029973\/where-to-watch\/\">Watch\u00a0Roman Holiday<\/a>.<br \/>\n56.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do something that frightens you.<br \/>\n57.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Laugh loudly.<br \/>\n58.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Fart proudly.<br \/>\n59.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Order the special.<br \/>\n60.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Find time for quiet moments in your day.<br \/>\n61.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Call an old friend out of the blue.<br \/>\n62.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Make up with someone.<br \/>\n63.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Have dessert.<br \/>\n64.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Show respect for all living things.<br \/>\n65.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Skip that last drink&#8211;you don&#8217;t need it.<br \/>\n66.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stand up for someone.<br \/>\n67.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Remember that grief is not weakness, but part of the healing process.<br \/>\n68.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Rid your life of people who are jealous, bitter, petty or mean-spirited.<br \/>\n69.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Read Shakespeare.<br \/>\n70.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Take responsibility for your mistakes instead of blaming others.<br \/>\n71.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Call your mom.<br \/>\n72.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stop justifying bad behavior with &#8220;I was only kidding.&#8221;<br \/>\n73.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tell someone what you love about them. Be specific.<br \/>\n74.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Put a puzzle together. It will relax you.<br \/>\n75.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Get a mammogram if you are over 40 or have a family history of breast cancer.<br \/>\n76.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Read a Harry Potter book.<br \/>\n77.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do something nice without worrying about who gets the credit.<br \/>\n78.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Deflect anger with a smile.<br \/>\n79.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Laugh in the face of adversity. It won&#8217;t last forever.<br \/>\n80.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sing aloud, even if you&#8217;re terrible.<br \/>\n81.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Spend more time with kids&#8211;your own or someone else&#8217;s.<br \/>\n82.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Play a board game.<br \/>\n83.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ride a roller coaster even if it scares you.<br \/>\n84.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Make a list of things you like about yourself and read it when you&#8217;re down.<br \/>\n85.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Introduce yourself to the new person.<br \/>\n86.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Stop procrastinating. Do it now.<br \/>\n87.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Get a massage.<br \/>\n88.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Be generous.<br \/>\n89.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Leave town for the weekend.<br \/>\n90.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sit in a hot tub.<br \/>\n91.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Expect the best in people.<br \/>\n92.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Rub someone&#8217;s feet. Preferably someone you know.<br \/>\n93.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Go to a comedy club.<br \/>\n94.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Buy new sheets.<br \/>\n95.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Work late less.<br \/>\n96.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Spend a day doing absolutely nothing productive.<br \/>\n97.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ignore gossip and refuse to spread it.<br \/>\n98.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do crossword puzzles.<br \/>\n99.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Skinny dip.<br \/>\n100.\u00a0 Love people for what they are and forgive them for what they are not.<br \/>\n101.\u00a0 Keep your promises and don&#8217;t promise what you can&#8217;t do.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>How about you? What are your resolutions for the new year?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>May your 2019 be filled with peace, joy, grace, and love.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, I know, you want to lose weight, stop smoking, exercise and be better to yourself in 2019. Good for you; those are fine goals. 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