{"id":290,"date":"2018-12-07T17:30:25","date_gmt":"2018-12-07T17:30:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=290"},"modified":"2018-12-07T17:30:25","modified_gmt":"2018-12-07T17:30:25","slug":"dont-just-show-remember-leave-lasting-impression","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2018\/12\/dont-just-show-remember-leave-lasting-impression.html","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t Just Show Up, Remember To Leave A Lasting Impression"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Many women believe by showing up to a date, they are guaranteed a second date<\/a> with the same person. However, showing up and having a conversation with your date, doesn\u2019t guarantee a second date. If anything, you\u2019re barely performing the minimum requirements for a date. Sitting across from a person and having a conversation doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve interacted. You\u2019ve asked questions, he\u2019s asked questions, and the date has turned into a job interview with food or drinks. You\u2019re not leaving a memorable impression, instead you\u2019re leaving a very sour and bland impression.<\/p>\n

While getting to the first date is great, to guarantee a second or third date, you must make a memorable impression. Something that will separate you from the other women he\u2019s dating.<\/p>\n

What is a memorable impression? Let me tell you what it isn\u2019t: showing off your boobs, having large boobs, having great legs, indicating that you love having sex, or indicating that you\u2019re a freak in bed. Sex isn\u2019t how we remember women, while these are things that make you stand out, they aren\u2019t how we remember you. Why do you think beauty pageants have a question and answer section? They\u2019re millions of beautiful women, and if you answer every question with \u201cworld peace\u201d, you\u2019ll end up just like another beautiful woman.<\/p>\n

So what makes a woman memorable. It differs for every guy; generally it\u2019s based on how well you connect with him and if you have similar interests. For me, a female football fan<\/a> will always rise to the top of my list. The one thing that makes a woman memorable is their attitude. If someone shows up to a date, with a sense of entitlement, she\u2019s not going to get a second date. While there\u2019s men eager and willing to play sugar daddy, it\u2019s not the majority of the male population.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to have fun on a date, to make a joke, and to be witty. Those are the women we men crave. They have a sense of adventure, are fun, and don\u2019t take things too serious. These are also the women who put their best effort in connecting with the guy that you\u2019re on a date with. You can\u2019t be witty unless you\u2019re listening to what he has to say and connecting the dots. If things go well, a second date will emerge. If things don\u2019t work out, at least you tried. Some people aren\u2019t compatible at all.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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