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\u201cThe person you\u2019re going to marry isn\u2019t at the club,\u201d a friend once told me. It was a message I was often reminded by friends and my experiences during my days of frequent clubbing. While I agree with the statement, exceptions to the rule exist. I have a dear friend who I often club with, who has found several quality people while out partying. I also believe she\u2019s a quality person herself.<\/p>\n
Outside of the exceptions, the statement my friend told me is true, very rarely are you going to find a quality date at the club. However, as guys, we often aren\u2019t reminded or told to recognize this fact. We always believe there\u2019s a quality person at the club just for us. I\u2019ve seen many men fall heads of heels for a woman on the dance floor, only to get their hearts ripped out, or end up in very bad relationships. It\u2019s not that quality women don\u2019t go to clubs, but they aren\u2019t the majority.<\/p>\n
We have to remember what clubbing is about, while it\u2019s a breeding place for meeting new and sexy people, it\u2019s not a place where discussions about the socio-political messages of Soylent Green. Deep conversations often revolve around how deep you would like to be inside of a person. Clubbing is fun, it\u2019s hormone and sexually charged. Often people are looking for an escape from a long work week, a bad day, or just want to have some fun; they aren\u2019t seeking to change the world.<\/p>\n
Many of my horrible dating stories revolve around clubs. That\u2019s not to say I haven\u2019t found really interesting and quality women on the dance floor. There are some very wonderful people who attend clubs, but they aren\u2019t the majority. You can stereotype most people who attend a certain club, and be right a majority of the time. Many clubbers fall into several categories. Next time you\u2019re at a club, take a close look at the people around you, how many of them would you consider spending the night with? How about a week? How about a lifetime? The answers to these questions should prove my point.<\/p>\n
Men are often sold the fantasy that we\u2019ll find a perfect woman any place we go. We\u2019re often lied to; clubs aren\u2019t the best place to meet women. I believe it\u2019s one of the worse places to meet people. If you\u2019re seeking something permanent and long term, don\u2019t use the club as your first option. You well be highly disappointed.<\/p>\n
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