{"id":267,"date":"2018-11-16T11:53:12","date_gmt":"2018-11-16T11:53:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=267"},"modified":"2018-11-16T12:03:08","modified_gmt":"2018-11-16T12:03:08","slug":"im-single-whats-next","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2018\/11\/im-single-whats-next.html","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Single Again\u2026 So What&#8217;s Next?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-268 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/411\/2018\/11\/neonbrand-356967-unsplash-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"neonbrand-356967-unsplash\" width=\"614\" height=\"409\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now that I\u2019m single again, the question of \u201cwhat to do next\u201d has arisen several times. Each time I return with an answer of, \u201cI don\u2019t know.\u201d What does one person do when they are single? Where do you begin? Should I begin dating again? I don\u2019t have the answer to these questions, as I\u2019m going thru the motions myself, but I\u2019ve\u00a0received\u00a0some helpful advice from friends that are quite helpful.\u00a0<span id=\"more-1208\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t Look For Another Relationship<\/h3>\n<p>Most likely, after leaving a relationship, you\u2019re not ready to jump into another one. Some of my friends have advised against dating altogether, but I\u2019m not so sure about that. After a breakup, your best getting it out of your system. A casual, more non-comitted route may be your best avenue.<\/p>\n<h3>Make Up For Lost Time<\/h3>\n<p>While in a relationship, there\u2019s friends you may not have seen as often or things you wish you could have done, but weren\u2019t able to. Now is a perfect time to run out and do them! Return to a hobby you may have put down, or a trip you wanted to take. Catch up with\u00a0acquaintances, friends, and stay out till 4 in the morning drinking with them. It\u2019s your time to do whatever you want, without thinking of hurting someone else. So do it!<\/p>\n<h3>Revisit Your Dating Profile<\/h3>\n<p>What has worked in the past, may not work in the future. Just because your dating profile caught your ex, it may need some tweaking to catch the next person you\u2019re seeking after. Take a moment and tweak it, improve on your dating profile, now with your past experiences.<\/p>\n<h3>Flirt<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s time to practice the art of flirting all over again. Talk to women! But don\u2019t just talk to women, flirt with them. Have fun meeting women, and being flirtatious. You\u2019re most likely out of practice and need a refresher course.<\/p>\n<h3>Re-asses Yourself<\/h3>\n<p>Relationships change people.\u00a0 There are some things\u00a0you need to do, to ensure you become a better person. There\u2019s also a few things, you will realize, that you want in the person consider dating next. Post breakup provides an excellent opportunity to evaluate where you are, what you are seeking, and most importantly, what you want.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now that I\u2019m single again, the question of \u201cwhat to do next\u201d has arisen several times. Each time I return with an answer of, \u201cI don\u2019t know.\u201d What does one person do when they are single? Where do you begin? Should I begin dating again? 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