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You\u2019re at the bar having a few drinks with your girls when you spot a cute guy across the bar. You want to get his attention, but in a subtle and classy manner. So what do you do?\u00a0 Do you walk up to him and try to spark a potentially awkward conversation\u2026.or do you trick him into doing the same? With these tips you can grab his attention without uttering a single word. If the proper girl in the hat from \u2018Wedding Crashers\u2019 can get Owen Wilson\u2019s attention just by her\u00a0\u201ceye language\u201d\u00a0alone, so can you.<\/p>\n

Step 1:\u00a0 Catch His Gaze<\/strong><\/h2>\n

You\u2019re gonna need to make eye contact with the guy, but don\u2019t do it by giving him a stare-down. You need to be inconspicuous\u2026 glance over in his general direction and if you feel him looking your way, catch his stare. Or if he\u2019s not really looking over your way, nonchalantly look in that direction until you lock eyes.<\/p>\n

Step 2. \u2026Hold It<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Once you\u2019ve done the hard part and made eye contact, maintain it for a few seconds.. that\u2019s all it takes. Remember, you want to come off as sexy, not creepy, so don\u2019t make it too long. If you can hold his stare (and attention) for longer than a couple seconds, things are looking good for you.<\/p>\n

Step 3:\u00a0 Shoot The Smile<\/strong><\/h2>\n

After you\u2019ve locked eyes, keep him intrigued. Smiling is key. Don\u2019t fake it, try to avoid looking like the Cheshire cat from Alice in Wonderland \u2014 it\u2019s just not sexy. Give him a genuine, mysterious smirk right before you return to conversing and focusing your attention on your friends. Be subtle with it, but make it obvious enough so that he knows you\u2019re sending that smile in his direction.<\/p>\n

Step 4: Check Up On It<\/strong><\/h2>\n

After about five minutes, return your attention to where he is posted up. Is he still showing signs of interest? If so, make sure he can tell you\u2019re still interested with some more flirty smiling and maybe even throw in a quick wink. Smile with your eyes and work the body language. He should be sending you a drink and\/or chatting you up in no time.<\/p>\n

And men\u2026don\u2019t forget that learning to\u00a0flirt with your eyes\u00a0can be just as deadly in the game of attraction!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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