{"id":1590,"date":"2021-05-10T15:55:42","date_gmt":"2021-05-10T15:55:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/?p=1590"},"modified":"2021-05-10T15:55:42","modified_gmt":"2021-05-10T15:55:42","slug":"are-long-hair-styles-for-men-attractive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/makeyourrelationshipwork\/2021\/05\/are-long-hair-styles-for-men-attractive.html","title":{"rendered":"Are Long Hair Styles for Men Attractive?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1593 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/411\/2021\/05\/zach_effron_mens_hairstyle.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"120\" height=\"151\" \/>There is an old Rastafarian mantra that goes like this: \u201cA man without hair is like a tree without leaves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just to be clear, I\u2019m not a Rastafarian nor do I plan on growing dreadlocks, but I have been playing around with growing a long hair style and this particular quote seemed appropriate.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since the first hairs on my head existed I have had the same style hair. It\u2019s always been high and tight, number 2 clippers, scissors on the top, and parted to one side. The only exception was during my first season of collegiate cross country when it was shaved during an initiation\/hazing ritual.<span id=\"more-165\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>It has been six months since my last hair cut. I\u2019m now in that awkward stage between short hair and long hair. Some might call it medium length, but I call it a pain in the ass. Sometimes it does what I want and looks good, other times it cannot be tamed.<\/p>\n<p>The problem I\u2019m facing, is how to style it. I thought I could pull off the Zach Effron look but, as my hair continues to grow, I\u2019m realizing that it slightly curls as it increases in length. Thus my strategy needs to suite that type of hair.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1596 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/411\/2021\/05\/long_mens_hairstyle.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"120\" height=\"147\" \/>After an exhaustive image search I believe I\u2019ve found the direction that\u2019s best suited for me . Perhaps something like this, except imagine it with dark brown hair (see picture on right).<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m still in the experimental phases of this, but I\u2019m enjoying the new look so far. I\u2019m not sure that it\u2019s making a huge difference in the seduction front, but I\u2019ve noticed that I\u2019m attracting different types of girls. I seem to be talking to and attracting more artsy, hipster, rocker, punk, tattoo type of women\u2026 which I like;)<\/p>\n<p>Long hair seems to be the direction that a lot of men in the seduction community eventually take, assuming they are not going bald, in that case they opt for the Neil Strauss shaved head with goatee look (on right).<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1599 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/411\/2021\/05\/neil_strauss_hairstyle.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"120\" height=\"149\" \/>There seems to be something seductive about long hair styles on men. Perhaps it is a peacocking thing or a sign of an alpha male, like a lion with a long mane. Male musicians and actors, sex symbols of the modern era, are often seen with longer hairstyles. Even Casanova was well known for his long seductive hair.<\/p>\n<p>I have heard mixed messages from the ladies on this topic. There definitely seems to be a preferred preference depending on the woman, but like I said earlier, different types of women seem to be attracted to men with long hair. Although, I suppose for your hairstyle to be truly attractive, it has to be congruent with your overall style and personality.<\/p>\n<p>So what\u2019s your opinion? Short hair or long hair? What style? And does it even matter? Comments are welcome from all, but I\u2019m particularly curious to what my female readers think.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is an old Rastafarian mantra that goes like this: \u201cA man without hair is like a tree without leaves.\u201d Just to be clear, I\u2019m not a Rastafarian nor do I plan on growing dreadlocks, but I have been playing around with growing a long hair style and this particular quote seemed appropriate. 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