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How to tell if a guy\u00a0isn’t<\/em>\u00a0into you. There are certain things guys say and do that are reliable indicators that they’re not interested in whatever it is you wish they were interested in, whether it’s a date or a serious relationship.<\/p>\n There are no guarantees, and there are always exceptions. If a guy says he’s going to call and doesn’t, it might mean he’s not into you, or it might mean that he got a flat tire on the way home from work and his cell phone died. Don’t go jumping to conclusions if one or two of these things happen. You’re looking for trends.<\/p>\n He doesn’t call when he says he will<\/strong>\u00a0(or e-mail, text, whatever, at a time when he said he would). He asks you about other girls<\/strong>. Ouch.<\/p>\n Your only “dates” are horizontal<\/strong>. Hello, booty call.<\/p>\n He chooses a night out with his friends over a night out with you.<\/strong>\u00a0Exceptions: a ritual event (Tuesday night bowling league) or something that has been planned for months, like a trip to Pigeon Forge. He doesn’t care about meeting your friends or family<\/strong>. He knows his lack of interest in you will be obvious to them, even if it’s not to you.<\/p>\n You haven’t met any of his friends or family.\u00a0<\/strong>I don’t mean after the first date, of course. I mean after dating long enough that you should have met some of his family and friends by now. You make all the plans<\/strong>. Guys who care will lift a finger to see you.<\/p>\n He doesn’t really know who you are<\/strong>. Why? Because he never asks about you. Your gut tells you he’s not interested<\/strong>. The gut is a smart cookie: it picks up nonverbal cues galore and adds them all up when you’re not looking. Is your gut ever wrong? Sure. But it’s right a lot more often.<\/p>\n There are more, but this is enough for now. I hope I haven’t shat in your flower garden. The truth hurts, but it’s better in the long run. Why waste time on someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" How to tell if a guy\u00a0isn’t\u00a0into you. There are certain things guys say and do that are reliable indicators that they’re not interested in whatever it is you wish they were interested in, whether it’s a date or a serious relationship. There are no guarantees, and there are always exceptions. If a guy says he’s…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":620,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\n
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\nHe’s okay with you dating other people<\/strong>. Because he’s okay with himself dating other people.<\/p>\n
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\nHe flirts with other girls in front of you<\/strong>. He’s not thinking about how it makes you feel, or he is and doesn’t care.<\/p>\n
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\nHe never compliments you<\/strong>. It might seem trivial, but if you’ve been around this guy for months and can’t remember one single nice thing he’s said about you, that’s not good.<\/p>\n
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\nHe says you’re “like a sister” to him.<\/strong>\u00a0You know what I said at the beginning about not jumping to conclusions based on one incident. You can jump on this one. If he compares you to a sister, it’s over. This one’s the kiss of death.<\/p>\n