{"id":878,"date":"2012-08-27T09:47:31","date_gmt":"2012-08-27T13:47:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/lifeasaconsciousmom\/?p=878"},"modified":"2012-08-27T09:48:41","modified_gmt":"2012-08-27T13:48:41","slug":"back-to-school-offers-an-opportunity-to-talk-about-practicality-verses-novelty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/lifeasaconsciousmom\/2012\/08\/27\/back-to-school-offers-an-opportunity-to-talk-about-practicality-verses-novelty\/","title":{"rendered":"Back-To-School Offers An Opportunity To Talk About Practicality Verses Novelty"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Walk into any store and you will see Spider-Man backpacks and Princess lunch boxes and every kid dragging their parents to look at them. What kid wouldn\u2019t want those?<\/p>\n

All it takes though is a cursory inspection to realize that these items are more form than function. The backpacks are rarely well-made, they aren\u2019t padded, they have few if no pockets and what they can carry is minimal. The lunch boxes are pretty much the same; small, limited and poorly constructed. But they are oh so desirable. Plus you run the risk that what’s cool today will be embarrassing in two -weeks time.<\/p>\n

Spotting a Pok\u00e9mon backpack, Caidin dragged me over to look at them the other day. Fortunately, in part due to his maturity and in part due to eight years of enforcing savvy consumer practices and explaining all of my decisions and choices when we shop, he wasn\u2019t too crestfallen when I said \u2018no\u2019. I didn\u2019t offer a flat out \u2018no\u2019. I had him take a look at the backpack and we talked about what it could hold, how it would hold up and what it would be like to carry it. After studying it, Caidin said \u2018Ya, no, that wouldn\u2019t be a good backpack.\u2019<\/p>\n

This led us into a conversation about why \u2018they\u2019 would make these backpacks in the first place.<\/p>\n

I explained to Caidin that in business the goal is to get people to buy what you sell. I suggested he first think about his own reaction to seeing the display of backpacks and then spend a few minutes just watching the kids coming into the store and noticing their reaction. So we did and he said to me \u2018wow, they really want these. Is this what dad means when he says desire and compulsion?\u2019 Yep. That\u2019s what he means.<\/p>\n

Big words for an eight-year old, I know, but with Caidin, a simple explanation is never enough. He wants to truly understand the reasons behind things and in explaining things in detail, we find ourselves using complex words and thoughts, which he then also wants explained.<\/p>\n

This shows you though, how you can use situations like this to teach and explain rather than making it become an \u2018either you get it to appease\u2019 or you just say \u2018no\u2019 situation.<\/p>\n

It is important for kids to feel good going back to school, so I have an option for you: rather than saying yes to an impractical backpack or lunchbox, explain why those aren\u2019t good choices and offer a more practical way (a t-shirt, or hat, or hoodie) that will allow your child to be a part of the current trend. You\u2019ll pay less, they\u2019ll actually love wearing it and when the fad is over, the item can be relegated to weekend wear or dress-up clothes for the stuffed panda.<\/p>\n

We left with a really cool, if I do say so myself, Avengers hoodie. It\u2019s so cool, that if Caidin was just a little bigger, I\u2019d be borrowing it.<\/p>\n

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\u00a9 2012 Christine Agro<\/p>\n

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